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Lost Izzie
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Memorial is over

Started this discussion. Last reply by laurajay Jun 30. 3 Replies

It's been four months.  The kids were there, my family and a host of his friends. I am now feeling my sorrow deep down and not as superficial as it was just a week ago.  But, I also feel a certain…Continue

 

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Lost Izzie replied to Lost Izzie's discussion Memorial is over
"Thank you, LJ, I understand the awkwardness.  I am an End-of-Life care nurse, I hear it all the time. Folks not asking me how I am doing directly makes me feel isolated. I am in need of some togetherness, my co-workers have been…"
Jun 30
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Memorial is over

It's been four months.  The kids were there, my family and a host of his friends. I am now feeling my sorrow deep down and not as superficial as it was just a week ago.  But, I also feel a certain amount of relief. Relief that he is no longer sick and in pain, relief that all the "well-wishers" are done saying their piece. I am back to just being me and my fond memories of the man I loved and still love.One of my patients asked me if I wished him back...yes, as long as he was not sick or in…See More
Jun 29
Lost Izzie replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"Thank you Callie. I have done my homework, this auctioneer takes his cut from the buyer, not the seller.  He is a very nice and honest man.  I've been watching his auctions and have met him in person.  I am putting reserves on…"
Jun 15
Lost Izzie replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"It's been almost 4 months now. The 23rd will be the memorial up in the mountains and the scattering of Charlie's ashes over his favorite spot in the world. I have finally decided what to do with all the guitars, amplifiers, etc. …"
Jun 14
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I am so sorry for your loss. My experience was similar, with my husband dying in my arms, I was trying to help him stand up at the time.  I too dread coming home each day.  It gets better, not perfect but better with some time. Remember…"
Jun 4
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"It's been almost 4 months for me, today I woke up feeling great and it has stayed with me throughout a very tough shift at work.  Most days I ride a rollercoaster of emotions, but not today. Take YOUR time Raebee, because it is your…"
May 10
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Welcome, Ryan.  Glad you found us and hope we can be of some comfort and help."
May 9
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I am so sorry, Firefly.  My husband died in February, I went in to work the next day, because I didn't know what else to do.  This is your time, take it and do what feels right for you. Hugs, Izzie"
May 4
Lost Izzie replied to vintage56(barb)'s discussion the little things
"Charlie and I would go through quoting whole movies when things would strike us.  If an object came between us as we were walking he would say, "Bread & Butter."  I'll have to thick more on this, so many things they are…"
Apr 21
Lost Izzie replied to Aly brabham's discussion Is it normal to keep items around your house of theirs
"Not yet 2 months, but I did a clear up of the last dresser drawer and Charlie's nightstand.  I had three boxes -Trash- -Keep-  and -I Don't Know-  There was more Trash than I thought there would be.  The other two…"
Apr 16
Nitabug left a comment for Lost Izzie
"That means SO much. Thank you. Hope all is well."
Apr 12
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I tell everyone, "I'm fine" many times a day. The folks at work are very supportive and my parents have been wonderful, but most days I just want to curl up in a corner.  Thank goodness I am able to stay busy and take care of…"
Apr 10
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello Anita, So sorry to hear of your loss.  My husband has been gone since February.  I am 58 and live in Wyoming, may not be close in distance, but we are close to heart."
Apr 9
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I am so sorry for your loss Ma.  My husband died after a short battle with bladder cancer in February.  I had him home for less than 2 weeks when he passed.  I still have my parents for support and folks at work have been…"
Mar 29
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I more fully understand family struggles with death of a loved one, that's for sure. I got a lot of things done today, but again, mostly moving things around.  It was exactly a month ago last Thursday.  I had been out shopping and…"
Mar 24
Lost Izzie replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion When did you remove your wedding rings?
"I put my husband's ring on and took mine off.  Not sure how long I will wear it, but for now it is right."
Mar 19

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At 9:56am on April 12, 2018, Nitabug said…

That means SO much. Thank you. Hope all is well.

 
 
 

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