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Loyd1960
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Loyd1960 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Long-Term Illness
"As I am reading through all these statements and comments,of so many new widows and widowers.It has taken me back to how lost I was the first year.Its been 4.5 years now since my wife passed from ovarian cancer.which she endured every chemo they…"
Dec 31
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"Welcome to Widville, Loyd1960. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions…"
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At 6:42pm on January 13, 2020, SoreEyes said…

Loyd

I read your post this evening and have to agree with everything. I can go a few days feeling ok and then wham, I'm in the depression hole.  Then it takes a day to climb back out. 

My wife had uterine cancer and she endured multiple chemo sessions along with radiation for 11 months.  It was not pleasant.  All of the major hospitals couldn't offer any hope.  She kept saying "but I'm not ready to go" in her last days in the hospice.  At 58, I agree, it was way to early for her to pass away.  We, like you, were married for 34+ years. 

The difference though is I lost her just 7 weeks ago.  Does the pain and sadness ever get better?  What would you suggest to find strength and find some kind of normalcy? 

At 2:57pm on December 31, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Loyd1960. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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