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Lulubear
  • Female
  • Grayson, GA
  • United States
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Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Sue, I love what you wrote below. I think about the steps I am taking every single day. I will take a step back and then I will take two more steps forward. Some steps back will be repeated others are gone forever. But I feel like I recognize those…"
Sep 4, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Thanks for the support Alexandra! It sounds like Dave was quite the reward...I am so glad your heart got to experience that but am very sorry for your loss. I have not thought of myself as courageous in a long time...I so appreciate you saying that.…"
Sep 3, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"I have not posted much lately but always feel safe here. It has been 2 months since my husband passed...but the truth is I lost him long before. 10 years ago he changed and our relationship went directly into verbal abuse. It took me a long time to…"
Sep 3, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Yes, I have a girlfriend coming over tonight for a few days to help me...see if we can do some mind over matter. I think there are just too many feelings swirling right now - guilt, loss, fear, etc. Once I am able to reconcile these I know that…"
Aug 15, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"It has been 1.5 months since my husband passed and I fear I am losing myself. I cannot eat, I barely sleep - I do not recognize who I am any longer. My 3 children are looking to me for guidance - for help in their grief (they start a children's…"
Aug 15, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"CrazyCatLady, I understand how you are feeling. My husband was 38 and I wanted so desperately to save him. Our marriage was not perfect...his illness made him angry and he lashed out...but he loved me and our 3 kids. He was so sick but was supposed…"
Aug 14, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi there Rob. I lost my husband on July 1...he was 38. I am right there with you. I am so glad you are getting support at work. I am experiencing the same. My mom is in Virginia and I am in Georgia...it is tough not having her close. We just moved…"
Aug 5, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I completely agree. Nathan passed July 1st and one of my twins asked when we were getting a new daddy...she is 6...I nearly threw up. I am scared of being alone for the rest of my life...but equally as scared about being with anyone who is not…"
Aug 5, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I understand that completely. I also have 3 young children...and one of my 6 year olds is special needs. It is so hard every day to parent them alone...I feel look an octopus. I also feel as if I am failing. Hugs."
Aug 5, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Oh love...I am so sorry. I lost my husband on July 1st and it's all so incredibly raw. Every day has been a challenge. I feel similarly to you...numb and dead inside. Friends want to help and I want to hide. I wish I could give you more words…"
Aug 5, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hugs to you... I get the life sucking part...I am there as well. I lost my husband on July 1st and have 3 little ones (6 year old twins and an 11 year old). He was only 38. I am new here too but already the messages are helping me. Stronger inch by…"
Aug 1, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Grayson, GA...only 20 min from you! Kerry"
Jul 30, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Grayson, GA here...just outside the perimeter. Lost my husband on July 1 at 38 years old. Hugs to all."
Jul 30, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Grayson, GA just outside the perimeter."
Jul 30, 2016
Lulubear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: SOUTH - ATLANTIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"I live just to the east of Atlanta in Grayson, GA. Kerry"
Jul 30, 2016
Lulubear commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2016
"Hi there. I lost my husband on July 1st...tomorrow is my wedding anniversary. He had a very rare liver disease that wreaked havoc on his body...he never got to the transplant phase. He was only 38. We moved to Georgia for my new job in Jan '15…"
Jul 30, 2016

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At 9:25am on July 8, 2016, judy said…

Hi Lulubear,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you.  I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

 

 
 
 

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