"Hi Everyone, I am coming up to the six year mark. It is true that I don't cry everyday for Jock but it is still so very hard. People don't realize how much the pain just stays and stays. They think i am over 'it' because I seem…"
Thanks so much Cindy - you really cheered me up. Yes I finished chemo 2 weeks ago - I see my oncologist on Tuesday. I feel a bit at sea now it is over..thinking about what is next for me. It was very hard going through it without Jock (my husband) and now the chemo is over (which forced me back into living one day at a time) I seem to miss him more and more as he would have been so supportive..but I know I must stay positive for my kids and try to get on with things..and to try to live my life as Jock would have wanted. love Jayne x
Hello, Luna. Cindy here (aka, Hornet). I was just flipping through some of the comment pages and saw a few of your posts. I am so sorry about your cancer diagnosis. I am so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to tell you that I'm thinking of you and hoping your chemo was successful. In fact, I hope it is over by now! I was just really touched by your comments and wanted to say, "Hello", and let you know that someone is thinking of you today. Good health and peace to you, dear.
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