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Lupe's husband
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Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2016

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Dec 21, 2016. 16 Replies

I'm opening up another thread on Dia De Los Muertos.      The date is November 2, but here in Los Angeles, there are celebrations throughout Southern California during the month of October.    I…Continue

Captain Fantastic(thread #1000)

Started Aug 22, 2016 0 Replies

I went to see another widow movie yesterday, "Captain Fantastic" starring Viggo Mortenson.     It was a story about a couple that raised their kids off the grid in rural Washington.      Mortenson's…Continue

 

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Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hugs to you, WV."
Friday
Lupe's husband replied to ExSystema (Mon)'s discussion I lived a dream, and now that dream is gone from me.
"Hugs to you Mon.    Looks you are near me.   I work in Glendale."
Apr 15
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion APRIL Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"The last three years we (friends and family) went out to eat at one of Lupe's favorite restaurants.    May 6 will be four years.   I wonder how many people will still be interested in doing this?    I will find out soon."
Apr 14
Lupe's husband replied to lisa72's discussion The Nice Things People Say
"Sadly Lisa it's normal for people to fall away.    We had a mass recently for my MIL who died three years ago and three people showed up.   May 6 will be four years for me, and the past few years we went out to eat on the 6th.…"
Apr 14
Lupe's husband replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Opening Day
"Thanks for the replies.    I will be leaving soon for the game!"
Apr 7
Sissy replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Opening Day
"Hi!    When I started to reading your post, I thought, " I bet they're from Cincinnati. " .. Paul and I enjoyed Opening Day. but this opening Day I spent it with my Son and Daughter in Law...     The Reds are…"
Apr 6
NoLongerInBergenJC replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Opening Day
"Steve used to mark various winter milestones towards Opening Day because he hated winter.  The Super Bowl was a big one.  Then the Oscars (which he didn't watch).  Then Valentine's Day, which was a week before pitchers and…"
Apr 5
Lupe's husband posted a discussion

Opening Day

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up along the baselines as the players names were announced.    We went to opening day every year of our relationship and now that she's been gone almost four years, I still go every year.   Friday, I'm going to see my Angels play Seattle.   Last year, it was against the Cubs.  Now I go with an in law,…See More
Apr 3
Lupe's husband replied to ashleynicole8378's discussion Need some advice please?
"I usually go out to eat with friends and family on Lupe's birthday and the day she passed We have a Mass intention on the Sunday closest to the day she passed. On our anniversary, I do one random act of kindness for every year we would be…"
Mar 31
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Don- My wife Lupe died from complications from Diabetes.    Hugs to you."
Mar 27
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Faking it to Make it Didn't Work
"The problem with what you are saying is that you are not wasting your time on sorrow and heartbreak.    Like the other people here have said, you have to go through it.  You loved your husband.   You still love him.  …"
Mar 23
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hugs to you, Chasity"
Mar 21
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Is it easier to decide not to move on?
"That's probably true.     A friend told me that our friendship gave her the self esteem to move into a new relationship.   I like that.  "
Mar 14
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Is it easier to decide not to move on?
"She lives around 100 miles away, so getting together for a brief chat is unlikely.   I've known her for almost two years.    I get the feeling I was sort of a cool guy to hang out with between boyfriends. And no, I've never…"
Mar 14
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Is it easier to decide not to move on?
"I've heard of the book and plan to read it after I retire soon.    I have another story that sort of ties some of these issues together and I hope no one is offended.   Last year I saw a woman for about 9 months.   it never…"
Mar 13
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Is it easier to decide not to move on?
"I think your issue is more getting used to making decisions on your own and that will come with time.   As for CW, the whole idea is that you are away from home and with other widowed people in a retreat environment.   If money is an…"
Mar 12

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At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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