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Lupe's husband
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XV

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband yesterday. 7 Replies

Thursday was my 15th anniversary and the past few years I have done one random act of kindness for every year I would have been married.     i did 15 this year.It went as follows:1) had the server…Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2017

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Oct 29. 7 Replies

OK, here's my 2017 Dia De Los…Continue

Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

 

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Lupe's husband replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"thank you"
yesterday
Lupe's husband replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"I do the same Dianne.   I write a message on the little envelope that I am doing this in honor of my anniversary and that my wife passed four years ago."
yesterday
Dianne in Nevada replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"I'm so happy you did this, Steve.  I started doing it four years ago and I do look forward to it each year. I include a little card that tells the receiver that I'm doing this to honor what would have been our (whatever number)…"
Monday
Lupe's husband replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"Thanks,  I'm already looking forward to next year."
Saturday
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion DECEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"hugs, Frank"
Friday
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion DECEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"I'll try to be there."
Friday
InsideLove replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"That is a lovely idea Lupe - how you've incorporated gratitude into the loss. I am so sorry for your loss. While I hate that I have to be here, what I love is ideas from others, like you, that help us move through a little easier, this whole…"
Thursday
Callie2 replied to Lupe's husband's discussion XV
"What a nice idea.  It is a positive way to celebrate a day that will always remain special to us.  Giving helps to release serotonin (a brain chemical) that gives us a sense of well-being. Thanks for passing that along!"
Dec 6
Lupe's husband posted a discussion

XV

Thursday was my 15th anniversary and the past few years I have done one random act of kindness for every year I would have been married.     i did 15 this year.It went as follows:1) had the server pick someone and I paid their bill at the local pupuseria in Highland Park for lunch2) had the server pick someone and I paid their bill at Bobs Big Boy in Burbank for dinner3) sent a check to Soaring Spirits for a campership4-7) left Blaze Pizza gift cards on random cars in Highland Park8-11) left…See More
Dec 3
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion NOVEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"November 30 would have been Lupe and I's 15th anniversary.    I did 15 random acts of kindness in honor of our marriage.   i will start up a separate thread on the raok's."
Dec 2
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion NOVEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"Today would have been Lupe and I's 15th anniversary.    Today I am doing 15 random acts of kindness in honor of our marriage.   i will start up a separate thread on the raok's."
Nov 30
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hugs photonut"
Nov 25
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"thanks for joining us, hugs Fran."
Oct 30
Lupe's husband replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Dia De Los Muertos 2017
"thanks for posting this Widow."
Oct 29
widow85 replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Dia De Los Muertos 2017
"We Remember Them by Sylvan Kamens & Rabbi Jack Riemer At the rising sun and at its going down; We remember them. At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter; We remember them. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; We…"
Oct 28
widow85 replied to Lupe's husband's discussion Dia De Los Muertos 2017
"We Remember Them by Sylvan Kamens & Rabbi Jack Riemer At the rising sun and at its going down; We remember them. At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter; We remember them. At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring; We…"
Oct 28

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At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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