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Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2016

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Dec 21, 2016. 16 Replies

I'm opening up another thread on Dia De Los Muertos.      The date is November 2, but here in Los Angeles, there are celebrations throughout Southern California during the month of October.    I…Continue

Captain Fantastic(thread #1000)

Started Aug 22, 2016 0 Replies

I went to see another widow movie yesterday, "Captain Fantastic" starring Viggo Mortenson.     It was a story about a couple that raised their kids off the grid in rural Washington.      Mortenson's…Continue


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Lupe's husband replied to Former Yooper's discussion Losing their voice on the landline voice mail.
"I used to call my wife's work phone number. She left a message that said she was away from her desk and would be back in minute. I found it comforting that she would be back soon, even though I knew it wasn't going to happen. After about…"
Lupe's husband replied to newlife's discussion Staying in the marital home or moving elsewhere?
"I live the house next to the house my wife grew up in.      My 27 year old daughter owns the house now and plans to move in after some clean up and renovation.    The roots are too deep to move.     Also, I just…"
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion AUGUST Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"I'm retiring next week after 30 years in law enforcement with the Federal Government.     Thursday I will be on to Camp Widow in San Diego and a new, less structured life. "
Aug 3
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion AUGUST Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"hugs, Tazi"
Jul 31
Lupe's husband replied to Nieta's discussion Singled Out by the Travel Industry!
"I've posted about this subject before.     I started a thread a few years ago when one of those time share sales people you see in the concourses of sports arenas wasn't interested in me after I told them I was widowed.   I…"
Jul 27
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Ok my conflict that week cleared up, so I will be going to my 5th Camp Widow.      If anyone needs a ride from the Los Angeles area, let me know.    I live near downtown LA.     I will be leaving late Thursday…"
Jul 26
Lupe's husband replied to Anna's discussion A good read about dating (and dealing with judgmental people.)
"I have one widowed friend that married after 13 months, good for her.   I think he may have been an old boyfriend and it was easy for them to pick up the relationship where it left off.    I have other widowed friends who waited until…"
Jul 9
Lupe's husband replied to desare's discussion i just dont know what to do
"Hugs and happy Canada Day!"
Jul 2
Lupe's husband is attending RGL Events's event

Soaring Spirits Regional Event in SAN GABRIEL VALLEY, CA at Brü Grill

June 27, 2017 from 7pm to 8pm
LOCATION CHANGE!!It's less than half a mile from the original location.Questions? [email protected] the group's Facebook page:  hereSee More
Jun 27
Lupe's husband replied to ByHisGrace08's discussion Young Widow/Widower (YWW) with no Kids
"hugs to you, by..."
Jun 25
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Unwed,  If you know San Diego, you might find a cheaper hotel room on Hotel Circle.    I usually stay at a hotel there that is about 1/3 the price of the Marriott.   Another option is to have a roommate at the Marriott,…"
Jun 23
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"if you are not busy on Thursday the 10th, they will probably have a meetup,by the pool at the Marriott in the afternoon, perhaps you can go and hang out a little with some campers that day."
Jun 21
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"I'm unsure if I am going.   I may have to attend a union convention in San Juan PR that week.    I might be home in time for the weekend and might be interested in volunteering on the Saturday, if possible.   I'm kind…"
Jun 19
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion JUNE Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"Hugs to you, Mike"
Jun 19
Lupe's husband replied to Rich's discussion Would you do it again?
"Same here.   I'd do it all over again in a second.    No regrets."
Jun 18
Lupe's husband replied to Suz's discussion Do you ever get annoyed at the price of funerals?
"I had that issue with my MIL.    She got mad at me because I put Lupe in a crypt instead of paying the $20,000 to buy two burial plots.   She said something about her spirit was going to floating around in the air or something like…"
Jun 10

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At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.


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