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Lupe's husband
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Dec 11, 2017. 7 Replies

Thursday was my 15th anniversary and the past few years I have done one random act of kindness for every year I would have been married.     i did 15 this year.It went as follows:1) had the server…Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2017

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Oct 29, 2017. 7 Replies

OK, here's my 2017 Dia De Los…Continue

Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7, 2017. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

 

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Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion APRIL Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"hugs, djackson"
Apr 9
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hugs Rosek Also, I live in SoCal myself.   I live near DTLA.       One of Soaring Spirits biggest fund raisers is a bike ride in the fall.     I usually participate.   See you there!"
Mar 28
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow Tampa 2018? Let's get acquainted!
"I go to San Diego CW every year and stay off site at a less expensive hotel.   Trust me, you won't be out of the loop."
Mar 17
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion MARCH Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"Hugs, danny's.   I've been to Spring Training in Arizona many times and although I won't be going this year, maybe next year.  It's so much fun and full of optimism.   My Angels added some pretty good…"
Mar 9
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hugs, Hazy"
Feb 28
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hugs"
Feb 22
Lupe's husband is attending Soaring Spirits's event
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Soaring Spirits Regional Event in SAN GABRIEL VALLEY, CA at Malbec Argentinean Cuisine

February 20, 2018 from 7pm to 9pm
Dinner, Drinks, and Dishing -- Argentinean style!I don't think I've ever had Argentinean food before. Let's do it!http://www.malbeccuisine.com/pasadenaVisit the group's Facebook page:  …See More
Feb 19
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"There is a widowed woman named Kelly Lynn who has created a monologue about these types of mostly well intentioned, but hurtful comments.   She calls it "My Husband is Not a Rainbow."   There might be a link to a video…"
Feb 19
Lupe's husband replied to InsideLove's discussion How was your valentine's day like no other? Here's mine.
"Had oral surgery.    Later on after the anesthesia wore off, got ashes (don't forget yesterday was Ash Wednesday) and texted a widowed friend of mine.    "
Feb 15
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"A lot of these relationship issues are sort of like threading a needle, right?    We are more independent, but still want a relationship under the right circumstances.    We want someone who is financially secure, but also…"
Feb 14
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"I'm definitely in the become more independent group.   I had lunch with a widowed friend recently and we were talking about whether you could still be one with someone, and yet more independent.   I think you can, but you…"
Feb 13
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"Ok, here are more followups after another busy day.    Usually, you will see the superwomen write things like, "I expect to be pampered' or "looking for a man who wants to take care of me." " looking someone to…"
Feb 12
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"A few followups here as I was pretty busy this weekend.   The Superwomen I get from Match usually use code words to indicate they are looking for a well off guy or a guy that they feel to be their equal.   I do live in Los…"
Feb 12
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"Like I said, it was a weak moment.    I sort of go back and forth on whether these women are models and the whole thing is a set up to just pry subscription fees from people who are single and want to meet someone.  It's not what…"
Feb 9
Lupe's husband replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion For those who do not want to date ...
"OK, in a weak moment, I signed up for Match.   i regret it.    I live in a big city, so I get two lists daily.    One list has these drop dead gorgeous women, who all seem to be doctors AND pilots, climb a mountain…"
Feb 9
Lupe's husband replied to Rainy (Misty)'s discussion How often do you visit the gravesite?
"i find going to the cemetery to be a  sobering reminder that life is limited and you have to make the most of the days you have left.    I think too many people tend to think that things will just keep going but we here at widville…"
Feb 9

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At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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