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Lupe's husband
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Dec 11, 2017. 7 Replies

Thursday was my 15th anniversary and the past few years I have done one random act of kindness for every year I would have been married.     i did 15 this year.It went as follows:1) had the server…Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2017

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Oct 29, 2017. 7 Replies

OK, here's my 2017 Dia De Los Muertos Altar.    It is a Mexican tradition that honors the…Continue

Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7, 2017. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

 

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Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I think you hit the nail on the head.  My neighbor was looking for nightlife and was not looking for the same things you were when traveling.    I'll let my daughter know what you told me.    She's not big on wine…"
Jun 7
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Thanks,    I can use all the new brain connections that I can get.   My daughter is talking about a Portugal trip.   How did you like it?   I asked my neighbor who has been there and he just thought it was ok, sort of…"
Jun 6
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I've signed up for some dating sites and I just find them daunting.    You really have to be committed to the process to find someone and I'm not just not that committed.     I know the former leader of our regional…"
Jun 6
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Yes, this was my first romantic relationship since Lupe died, but I had dated maybe 10 women before this   One woman I dated for close to a year, but it never became romantic.   I think you have a pretty good plan for yourself.   I…"
Jun 3
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"It's been three months since I've been on here.      A new record for me.     Overall, it looks like people are not using this website as much as it was several years ago when it was in its prime.  …"
Jun 2
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"It's been a while since I posted here, and I have some news.   I'm in a relationship!   We've been dating for a month or so and so far, so good.   It wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be, so maybe I was right…"
Mar 6
Lupe's husband replied to Alysoun's discussion Never Forget!
"Last year, I endowed a scholarship in my wife's name at my alma mater, Cal State Fullerton.   Forty four people applied for it and the first winner was announced in April.    It goes to someone who either lost a spouse or someone…"
Dec 7, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I like what you wrote.     Men act out of fear and desperation too, instead of love.   I've dated as young as 35, but I agree.   I'd rather be with someone in the same age and situation as myself.     I was…"
Nov 24, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Ha!   It's a little different for men in this area.   I gotta be careful how I word this, because it could sound flippant or demeaning, but dating women not that much younger than yourself can have unintended consequences.…"
Nov 24, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Looks like this thread is dead.   I haven't been on the website for six weeks.   Not much has changed.    I'm not dating, don't really miss it.     I've taken on some new responsibilities in the past…"
Nov 22, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion SEPTEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"I don't come on here as much as I used to, but September 5 would have been Lupe's 60th.    About eight of us, friends and family, got together at a restaurant to celebrate her birthday."
Oct 8, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I haven't been on much lately, so here's an update.  I tried messaging Lulu and invited her and her mom to dinner, but she didn't respond.   Then we went out for my birthday last week and one of the people who came…"
Aug 9, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to rena's discussion !st anniversay of my husband's death
"There are some of us widows/widowers who do one random act of kindness for every year you would have been married on your anniversary date.   It can become kind of a fun day because you are doing things for other people.   …"
Aug 5, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hugs Jenn and Smikette"
Jul 26, 2018
LadyG left a comment for Lupe's husband
"Yes I guess I PM'd you the other night.  I'm really new to WV and how this works.  It was late, late at night and I was just trying to reach out to the other two people who were on the site at the same time I was.  You were…"
Jul 24, 2018
Lupe's husband replied to WoodTurner's discussion Permission to Remarry
"I went on a cruise my first time last year.   I'm in my 50s.   I went by myself.    It was pretty awkward, though. as cruises are designed for couples and families.   I liked the overall experience…"
Jul 21, 2018

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At 3:05pm on July 24, 2018, LadyG said…

Yes I guess I PM'd you the other night.  I'm really new to WV and how this works.  It was late, late at night and I was just trying to reach out to the other two people who were on the site at the same time I was.  You were one of them.

At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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