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Lupe's husband
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Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Dec 11, 2017. 7 Replies

Thursday was my 15th anniversary and the past few years I have done one random act of kindness for every year I would have been married.     i did 15 this year.It went as follows:1) had the server…Continue

Dia De Los Muertos 2017

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Oct 29, 2017. 7 Replies

OK, here's my 2017 Dia De Los…Continue

Opening Day

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband Apr 7, 2017. 3 Replies

My wife Lupe loved to go to opening day of the baseball season.   She loved the pregame pageantry, see the big flag unfurled on the field and the fly over.    She loved how both teams would line up…Continue

14 Random Acts of Kindness

Started this discussion. Last reply by Dianne in Nevada Dec 7, 2016. 1 Reply

Last week was my 14th Anniversary.    The past few years, I've signed up to do a number of random acts of kindness that correspond with how many years I would have been married on my anniversary.  …Continue

 

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Lupe's husband replied to Susan's discussion How Do I Start....
"Remember, whatever you do, Susan, we are here to support you.   Let us know how things go for you...."
18 hours ago
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"That's a hilarious analogy.    I've never been compared to a groundhog before.  I just  think any future love will have to wait for another time, another season."
19 hours ago
Lupe's husband replied to Susan's discussion How Do I Start....
"I could give you a lot of trite advice, but I'm not going to do that.   I will leave it up to others.    Have you been to Camp Widow?    It would be a chance to meet new people who would get what you are going…"
Friday
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I've kind of decided to put any dating plans on hold for awhile.    I've given this some thought recently and I can see being in a good relationship could make my life that much better, but a bad relationship could make it…"
Friday
Lupe's husband replied to Susan's discussion How Do I Start....
"This might not be the answer you want, since I'm not a woman, but I've been giving my life a lot of thought over the past month or so.   I've written elsewhere about the two semi relationships i've been in since my…"
Thursday
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Good luck, Dianne.    Remember us widows and widowers root for each other, no matter what we do!   I think I'm going to take a break from pursuing a relationship for a while, but I like this thread and the support we get…"
May 20
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"hugs, Rainbow"
May 16
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Mary, I would just be upfront about the fact that you might back out due to being emotional and the fact that you are new to this..    Your new guy should be patient and understanding, I hope.    Just don't make plans to do…"
May 14
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"My experience is that I would not put widows on some kind of pedestal.      They can have the same faults that a non widowed person can have.   I haven't been emotional on dates, but if anything ever got beyond just a…"
May 14
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"I get that she probably wasn't ready yet, but apparently she was ready for someone else, which is fine.   I even told her I was happy for her.    I sitll think she could have told me when she started dating this guy, so I…"
May 14
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"OK, here's my small interaction with on line dating.    I broke down and decided to try it last year.     I signed up for one of the best known sites and every day they send you an email that has two lists of potential…"
May 13
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Ok, I said I was going to do this yesterday, but got home pretty late.    Here's the story about person #2.     After the friend zone relationship ended at the end of 2016, I met this woman on line early in 2017. …"
May 12
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Hey, I've seen it on this website.    I know one guy a few years ago who said he would never remarry, but sure enough, he's remarried now.    OK, I'm going to go into a little detail about my first relationship,…"
May 10
Lupe's husband replied to Mary H's discussion Dating Again for those Born in the 60s in the group Born in the 60s
"Hi- I'm new here.   Dianne recommended that I check this out.      I've been involved with this site for more than four years.     Since my wife died five years ago, I've been on some random…"
May 10
Lupe's husband replied to Keena's discussion Introducing myself
"Welcome and hugs to you, Keena."
May 9
Lupe's husband replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"And if you feel you can't afford it, remember there are camperships available.    It will pay for your camp fee, but hotel, transportation and food are your responsibility.     If you need a ride, i live near Downtown…"
May 6

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At 7:19am on November 26, 2015, david1980 said…
Lupe's Husband, thank you for being friend. My friend message does not work that well. I do not have a chat at all.
Here is the email address that you can reach me at anytime
[email protected] Thanks again and have a Happy Thanksgiving
At 12:48pm on February 5, 2015, brokenheart said…

hi thank you we are now friends

At 8:51pm on January 7, 2014, eliana said…

WV Event: Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness

Hello Lupe's husband!  Just wanted to invite you to the wedding anniversary Random Acts of Kindness event I set up -- if you'd like to participate, please RSVP at the link above.  Hope you're doing well.  Take good care of yourself and thank you!

At 5:17am on October 6, 2013, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widowed Village.  I am so sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You will find caring support and friendship here.

Here is the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you will find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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