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MPMom (Colleen)
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  • Moorpark, CA
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Tired of it all - Tired of doing it all

Started this discussion. Last reply by Lupe's husband May 26. 4 Replies

I'm sure there's a post out there about this somewhere already, but I just had to type out my feelings.I'm so tired of being responsible for everything, all the time.  11 months ago (wow - just…Continue

 

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MPMom (Colleen) replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"Somehow I missed this, but thank you!  I will probably just pack a nice dress, but not cocktail or black tie level.  I'm getting exited - an a little anxious!"
16 hours ago
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Not family camp, but my daughters (9 & 11) are super excited to attend Camp Erin in a few weeks.  It's a camp for kids who have lost a parent, close friend, etc.  The camps are hosted around the nation and best part - it's…"
16 hours ago
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"If you decide to write a journal - doesn't have to be daily or anything, just whatever works for you - you could also include memories of your husband to maybe one day share with your daughter?  My girls were 8 & 10 when they lost…"
16 hours ago
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"I wish I had done a journal for myself for the first year.  The first few months tho are such a blur or meetings, paperwork, etc that it kept me very busy.  Right around the 3m mark I did sit down and write out the series of events that…"
16 hours ago
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Riley's discussion mediums in the group Widowed in 2016
"I would love to.  I've always enjoyed the show Long Island Medium and would love to run into her one day.  Now that my husband is on the other side, I really want to meet with her or someone just as good.  I would love to know…"
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MPMom (Colleen) replied to Dianne in Nevada's discussion Who's going to Camp Widow San Diego 2017? Let's get acquainted!
"I will be there.  I have signed up to be matched with a roommate -- when do we find out info on our roomie?  I am driving down from Ventura county Thursday, dropping off my kids at my parents' house (also in SD), and checking in to…"
Jul 11
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Riley's discussion wedding anniversary in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi - my husband died 6/23/16 and what would have been our 15th wedding anniversary was 3/2/17. That day was particularly hard for me to handle. We had planned on spending 2 weeks in New Zealand to celebrate. I did my best to stay busy, but it was…"
Jul 11
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi Kristen - I lost my husband June 23,2016 and I also have 2 small children, altho mine were 8 & 10 at the time.  I also have very supportive friends and family, but I know what you mean about chatting with those who actually know what…"
Jul 11
Lupe's husband replied to MPMom (Colleen)'s discussion Tired of it all - Tired of doing it all
"MP- I completely relate to how you feel.   Something had to go, so I'm retiring in August.   That should free up somet time for household chores.    I'm not sure whether I can make it to CW San Diego, but I'm sure…"
May 26
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Nieta's discussion Have you experienced any "God Winks" (i.e., messages) from your late spouse?
"Yes - I'm convinced he helps me find things, too. Whenever I can't find something, and I've searched high and low, I'll say something like, "Ok Chris - where is it? Can you help me find it?" and generally within a half…"
May 25
MPMom (Colleen) replied to Nieta's discussion Have you experienced any "God Winks" (i.e., messages) from your late spouse?
"Wow - these are amazing stories!  I lost my husband 11 months ago and my very first "wink" was just hours after he died.  We had been camping in Italy, in a small mountain town in the Dolomites.  When he died, the S&R…"
May 24
Callie2 replied to MPMom (Colleen)'s discussion Tired of it all - Tired of doing it all
"There was a song about one is the loneliest number, probably before your time though. It is a real adjustment. I have had several issues crop up these past few weeks--you know household things my husband would have handled. Just Sat, my furnace…"
May 24
MPMom (Colleen) replied to MPMom (Colleen)'s discussion Tired of it all - Tired of doing it all
"Thank you for your reply Callie. Exhausting is a good word, but some days that doesn't cover it, right?  I am trying to stay in a place that I'm comfortable in as far as priorities.  I have had some breaks away from the kids - in…"
May 24
Callie2 replied to MPMom (Colleen)'s discussion Tired of it all - Tired of doing it all
"Oh Colleen, I hear you girl. Life can become very exhausting when we have to do everything--not only the doing but making all the important decisions. Having young children to take care of has got to be hard too. In my early days, I tried very hard…"
May 23
MPMom (Colleen) replied to lowrsr (Sherry)'s discussion Wedding Rings in the group Widowed in 2016
"I'm 11 months out today and I wear my rings.  He hardly ever wore his (long story), and I tried putting it on a chain around my neck, but didn't like it.  Instead, i have a small heart urn that I put some of his ashes in.  I…"
May 23
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At 1:27pm on May 16, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, MPMom. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

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Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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