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Maria
  • Female
  • Fernandina Beach, FL
  • United States
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Maria replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I think people are trying hard to relate? which maybe can be thoughtful but they should really get a quick course in when to shut the f*** up!"
Sep 23
Maria replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"no words!"
Sep 16
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Yup, I get it! Stunned is all you can be, because even if she was kidding, there's truth behind it.  doesn't sound like the kind of person you should waste your time with.  "
Sep 13
Maria replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"Early 30s with a 9mo old baby. I couldn't stand how people would say, you're young, you'll find someone else.  Hmmm, well by the time I thought about dating, I was on the other side of 35. Available men? Um nope! If they…"
Sep 12
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion When did you remove your wedding rings?
"At 18 months, my Aunt noticed and gave me a hard time.  The reason I wasn't in a hurry to remove my rings is I didn't want to seem single. Our daughter was 9mos old when he died. So she was around 2 then? About a year later I wanted…"
Sep 11
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Honestly, I think I was too dumbfounded to react.  The background of the relationship I had with her is I was pretty low back then. And I put up with a lot of her bullying.  But when her daughter started/continued to bully mine, I ended…"
Sep 11
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I guess that I've never said anything because in reality, Id never even want them to imagine how painful it is.  Everyone will have a sense of loss, we all lose someone. But there's a different guage of revelance when it comes to…"
Sep 10
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Nope, they do not. The thing is, they want you to 'get over it' because it's too hard for them. These just expect it, and this is a good place to share with people who do get it. "
Sep 10
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"Hey Ladies, the real fun begins when their husbands hit on you. Im also sharing that as a heads up. "
Sep 10
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"My apologies,  I think that me sharing was misunderstood.  I did so to let others know that people will say insensitive things simply because they dont understand what they are saying. Im far beyond the shocked point when it comes to this…"
Sep 10
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"You know what Peach, she may have been in pain. I chose not to say anything. All the same, just shows her character.  She's allowed to be in pain. She's allowed to share. But it's not a competition.  She said specifically…"
Sep 10
Maria replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"I had a friend who's husband left her and her daughter. She made a point to SAY it's WORSE  for them because he chose to leave. All I could think was well, your daughter may get a birthday card or call from her Dad now and then, mine…"
Sep 10
Maria commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hi Sar_ML, I can't even imagine how much it hurts that you survived the accident. Fighting for your life has a whole new meaning especially when the grief cards are stacked against you. My husband died in an accident when our daughter was 9mos…"
Sep 5
Maria commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Greetings, I'm glad I found this website. It's been 7.5 yrs since my best friend in the world died in an accident. Lots of ups and downs in the process raising our daughter solo who just turned 8. Wishing you well today, Maria "
May 30
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Maria
"Welcome to Widville, Maria. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
May 29

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At 3:39pm on May 29, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Maria. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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