So very sorry about your loss. I also turned to drinking after cancer knocked at my family's door. like you I came to realize that it's not the path to healing. Be better.... and always remember to be Kinda to yourself.
First of all, i'm very sorry for your loss. Losing the ones we love is perhaps the hardest thing in life. I don't think our society teaches people how to deal with death & sickness. I understand exactly what you mean about…"
"Sorry ash 43, cancer doesn't discriminate. It usually takes the most beautiful at first.
I feel your pain, I live it everyday. All I can say truthfully is, hold your head up high
and remember for the record that your love came directly from…"
"Squeaker, your story is almost identical to mine although Stewart and I were together for 21 years and got married two years ago but it's true there really are no friends a couple on the other coast so I find myself spending almost all my time…"
"Dear just me. My heart skips a beat for you. I share your grief and understand every word you say. But you have to set some goals for your heart and your head. Each day is an opportunity to carry your husband forward in the kindness or the smiles or…"
Bless you for your kind words and support. I am lucky to have you on my side tonight. I've lost so many people sometimes it's hard to imagine not being alone. tonight for a moment you made me feel like I wasn't. bless you…"
"Every day seems to be a struggle for me not much has changed. still haven't found a job. so I have lots of free time on my hands to worry. I seem to worry all the time. I'm not sure if this is a phase or I'm getting worse. I…"
Welcome to Widville, Markus. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.
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