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Mel K
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  • Okotoks
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LorraineS replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"Hi Mel, Sorry you're going through so much. Sorry for your loss. My kitchen is in the middle of a renovation and I thought my husband would've finished it before he suddenly passed. It's only been under renovation since 2017! A couple…"
Jul 24
Debb replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"I understand the feeling and it sucks. I wish things were different but it sucks big time."
Jul 24
LO replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"Hi Mel K, I am sorry for your loss. I completely understand how you feel. My husband was 53 and very suddenly passed away of Covid. I have never experienced pain like this, the grief is overwhelming. We were also renovating our house and now I…"
Jul 24
jlsrdh replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Mel K Julia Samuel has 2 YouTube videos that you should watch:  what is grief the power of pain hugs jlsrdh"
Jul 24
Carousel replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"I understand the lost feeling.  My heart goes out to you and what you are going througmonth.  I am a month out from losing the love of my life.  Each day seems to bring emptiness that I've never felt before."
Jul 24
Ellen replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Mel -  This is Ellen from our Tuesday Zoom support group.  While our situations are a little different,  I am in the same place where my husband's passing was unexpected and quick and I have step children that seem to starting to…"
Jul 23
Mel K replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"I am sorry you lost your wife suddnely Estragon. I am definitley in that shock and fog state you are speaking of. I am not sure if I am really here. I have had some moments of clarity that were very bried anf very painful. It really seems it's…"
Jul 22
Mel K replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I am sorry to hear you suffer from all that pain as well. I am so sorry you lost your love Mark. I am not too sure where to turn for help I have spent weeks searching for resources. I really hope something comes along so I don't lose…"
Jul 22
Estragon replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"My wife died suddenly at the end of January.  Everyone is different, but I was in a sort of fog / state of shock for quite a while.  The fog lasted for a couple of months, then there would be the occasional, brief period of relative…"
Jul 22
Roxana replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Mel, i am so sorry for the horrible situation you are in. i too sufer with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome and feel very ill every day.  I lost my husband suddently last january, his heart stopped beating. Im 36 and after he…"
Jul 22
Moby replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"This is not a club anyone wants to join. But we are here. Sometimes it's a breath at a time.  "
Jul 22
Mel K replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"I am so sad to hear you are going through this same thing. Breaks my heart. Thank you for your comment. Your kind words. It is appreciated."
Jul 22
Moby replied to Mel K's discussion Feeling lowest of lows in the group Widowed in 2020
"I relate.  I lost my love June 17.  And in same position as you.  One day at a time, one moment.  I dont have the words.  Just want to respond say I relate."
Jul 22
Mel K added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2020
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Feeling lowest of lows

I'm reaching out as I am having one of my worst days ever. I am so lost and wondering what the purpose of everything is. My husband suddenly passed on June 11th. Suspected heart attack at the age of 44.I believe I am still in shock or coming out of shock I really do not know. I am so unbelievably overwhelmed with the pain and in addition the worst financial situation that I could ever imagine. I have been on disability from chronic pain and fibromyalgia for years and I have no real income. I…See More
Jul 22
Mel K added a discussion to the group Suddenly Widowed
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Feeling lowest of lows

I'm reaching out as I am having one of my worst days ever. I am so lost and wondering what the purpose of everything is. My husband suddenly passed on June 11th. Suspected heart attack at the age of 44.I believe I am still in shock or coming out of shock I really do not know. I am so unbelievably overwhelmed with the pain and in addition the worst financial situation that I could ever imagine. I have been on disability from chronic pain and fibromyalgia for years and I have no real income. I…See More
Jul 22
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Mel K
"Welcome to Widville, Mel K. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions for…"
Jul 10

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At 6:15pm on July 10, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Mel K. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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