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Miket
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HelensRay replied to Miket's discussion Next Week in the group Widowed in 2016
"Sandi, thank you so much for your contribution. I have been wrestling with how I should manage with Helens ashes.  I did'nt know if I should just spread them in one spot, the one place she did talk about many years ago, or if I should…"
Oct 15
Miket replied to catapan's discussion Any suggestions for ways forward please in the group Widowed in 2016
"Yes, trust your heart. It might be that driving back and forth makes for a long day. Then again, you hit both goals ... you attend and you still sleep in your own bed. Sounds like a good compromise - if you are up to it. Scared or nervous? I still…"
Sep 3
Miket replied to catapan's discussion Any suggestions for ways forward please in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi there. I know it must be a tough decision. Many days I have the same reservations. While he stressed going to get out and seek change, let me pass along advice that many on this web site have offered (maybe even you)? You will know when the time…"
Sep 3
WolfgalVal replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Wow.  Very honest and heartfelt advice.  This really helped me in my journey today.  Thank You!"
Aug 24
WolfgalVal replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"This is such a measured, grounded message about healing. So much joy and hope. Thanks for sharing.  It is a real comfort to my "adrift" sense of where iI I am since my loss in April '16.   "
Aug 24
Miket replied to soulmate's discussion Her Belongings in the group Widowed in 2016
"I feel your pain. My wife is now gone nine months and everything of hers is still in place. I can't bear to touch a thing. In my heart I want to leave it there in case she returns. In my mind I know this is only a dream. And yes, the house is…"
Aug 16
catapan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi,Susan. I thought I would investigate the British version and have been discouraged. The site I have found seems out of date. (Their gift shop is selling 2014 calendars!)and there are a lot of more recent articles from the UK Ministry of Defence,…"
Aug 7
Susan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi!    I have found a new way of helping myself and someone else at the same time. I went to " Adopt A Soldier " program on line, and adopted a soldier. She is in Afghanistan.  I thought maybe others may want to try it.…"
Aug 6
Miket replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Thank you all for sharing your thoughts. I am a prostate cancer survivor and today I had my six month checkup. You know, in a strange sort of way I hoped that my cancer would have recurred. The thought of being one step closer to my wife was…"
Aug 3
Susan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Miket,     I just re-read your post....  It says you were advised to think about the good times. If I do that, I turn into a crying, moody mess. :-(  August will make 9  months since he has passed, and that horrible alone…"
Jul 31
dahelsley replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"I don't believe that blocking out thoughts of your wife will help, although everyone's journey is unique.  After 2 1/2 years I still have bad days, but thankfully they are less frequent (full disclosure, I ended up losing sleep last…"
Jul 28
Susan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Such beautiful, well meaning words. THANK YOU! :-)  Susan"
Jul 28
catapan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Today's mailing from the Brave Girls Club (applies to men, too, of course) "You have already done so much, dear friend, it’s okay to be weary.   Sometimes it is just so hard to think that we still have to keep going even when…"
Jul 27
Susan replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Hi !     Coping ? I wish I knew how. Paul passed away on Dec. 7, 2016.  ... I still can't find that think called " life "... I know it's out there somewhere.      Today is the 2nd. anniversary of…"
Jul 27
Prissy replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"LOVE THIS POEM!  It says it all."
Jul 26
Prissy replied to Miket's discussion Coping in the group Widowed in 2016
"Miket, it has been almost 9 months since my John passed.  I have found taking one day at a time the only way I can cope.  Just when I think I am doing good I hit a day when the tears just don't want to stop. Have decided to just…"
Jul 26

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At 7:48am on June 11, 2017, judy said…

Hi Mike,
Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you. I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

 
 
 

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