I hope your day is going well and that you don't struggle each month on the day that you lost your loved one! As I think you all know, but just in case you don't, my wife of nearly 52 beautiful years passed away on 6 August 2012. The one year Anniversary is coming up in less than a month and I've passed each month's Anniversary day along the way. Many widows and widowers seem to have a very hard time when the monthly Anniversary day or the yearly Anniversary day of the…Continue
Good morning everyone on WV,
I know that many, if not most, of us always stop crying long enough to say, "why me and how come no one will listen to me! It's like they don't want to hear about it! It's like they don't even care! First of all, it depends on the perspective of who's doing the asking and who's supposed to be doing the listening. As the asker, I can assure you that they are listening, but like you say, they don't want to hear what you have to say. It's not that they…Continue
After you lose your loved one and feel that your life has ended, there can still be hope for a new life and a new you! When you look at all you had and start to think that you lost everything and that you cannot possibly continue without the one you lost, then it's time to sit down and re-evaluate what you had, what you lost, and where you are now.
Where you are now is today and today can be the start of a new you and a new life. At this very moment in time, you may feel hopelessly…Continue
My wife passed away on 6 August 2012 and on that day not only did she pass away, but for me my world stopped moving! I stopped living and I might as well have passed away with her! For the first few months, I felt very sad and lost. We’d done everything together for nearly 52 years and suddenly I was all by myself. There I was in an empty house with only my son who had been living with us and helping me take care of my wife. He was still there, but for me, I was all alone. My son might have…Continue