"I hear all the time "well you don't have to worry about anything now do you, since you will get his Social Security and the Life Insurance" He didn't have Life Insurance and I can't get his SS until I am 60.... in 16 YEARS!"
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MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"MamaJen: that's one of my all time favorite movies! I don't know what I would do without my dogs. We had 4 but my husband's dog just couldn't be without his Daddy so he went to be with him a month after. My pastor keeps trying to…"
Ace left a comment for MrsHamilton
"Hi MrsHamilton, I also am not in 2011 so I am responding here. Hope we can be friends.
Friends or support people like that clueless- meanspirited paster we can all do without.
The nerve of him. Stay away from him- unless you have the energy to tell…"
MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Suddenly widowed
"@ Letha - You have a GREAT time!! Don't worry I think we all understand the excitement. I got invited to go to dinner tonight with a previous co-worker (also female). I am so excited I dressed up for for work today. LOL…"
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Dianne in Nevada left a comment for MrsHamilton
"OMG, MrsHamilton!! I'm not in the Widowed in 2011 group so I can't respond there, but I agree with Brian ... find a new pastor!! How dare he? I'm at 18 months and still have 3 cars sitting in my driveway. We do…"
MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"I am SO angry I could scream!!! It was 3 months Friday. I miss him so much I can't stand it. My "pastor" decided he was going to put together a committee to help me since I'm in "emotional turmoil" right now (his…"
MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Just needed to check in, having a REALLY crappy day. Started the morning with the lady at the gas station asking where my hubby has been keeping himself and continued through with my pastor calling me to tell me that he had a "revelation"…"
MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2011
"Jimswife: I'm only 2 weeks ahead of you but I can tell you that the 2 month mark was much harder for me then the 1 month. I was a complete basketcase for about 5 days. Hang in there. I can't promise you it will get easier I'm not…"
MrsHamilton commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 60s
"Maya, You put into words exactly how I feel. Before DH & I married I was a single parent and I did everything on my own, my first husband completely disappeared and I had no help so I had to handle everything. I let DH move into my life and I…"
Supa Dupa Fresh left a comment for MrsHamilton
"Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the…"
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- At 9:11am on March 27, 2012,
Ace said… Hi MrsHamilton, I also am not in 2011 so I am responding here. Hope we can be friends.
Friends or support people like that clueless- meanspirited paster we can all do without.
The nerve of him. Stay away from him- unless you have the energy to tell him off - he is clueless and has no idea how to help anyone. REPORTING you threats - that is not help in anyway. This is not a loving or kind person at all. Well if you have read here - you know that many of us do different things with our loved ones belongings- some NEVER give them away, some do right away some with regrets some without. - We are all different and have different needs- BUT UNDER NO Circumstances should we be bullied or have someone stick their nose in where it is not their business. Under no circumstances get rid of your belongings- if you have no mind and I suspect this paster has JUST THE PLACE for you to get rid of all your husbands belongings- he sounds like a predator. I had many come around wanting to "Help" take my husbands things off my hands- about 20 offer to help with his motorcycle and truck, and tools. so sorry about that letter. Keep coming here for feedback....our spouses are not here to help but we all have each other at WV. Oh and the dogs- My husband's family had the nerve to write an email - where one sister suggested that we get rid of him when my husband had cancer because it was so much work taking care of him. One dog!!! My kids father was sick and she thought she had the right to comment even on us getting rid of or lab that was like another family member
- At 3:01pm on March 18, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… OMG, MrsHamilton!! I'm not in the Widowed in 2011 group so I can't respond there, but I agree with Brian ... find a new pastor!! How dare he? I'm at 18 months and still have 3 cars sitting in my driveway. We do what we can when we can and it's no one else's business. Hang tough!
- At 9:47pm on February 14, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
Supa
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- At 11:04pm on February 11, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad you found us. Thank you for allowing us to share your journey, none of us should travel this road alone. Welcome.
- At 7:48pm on February 7, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Mrs Hamilton: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at WV that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 12:45am on February 7, 2012,
wannabmartha said… So sorry for the reason that you’re here but glad you’ve joined us. You’ll find insight, understanding and support here at Widowed Village. We’re traveling the same road together some further down the road than others. Join a group when you’re ready to get better connected. Participate in a forum and/or chat anytime. If you have questions, feel free to ask. There is always someone around willing to help.
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