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Mrs.Hehar
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  • San Jose, CA
  • United States
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Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"So I was feeling anxious all morning so I thought it would get better by leaving the house. I took my husbands Mom to her doctors appointment then I had to take her to the dentist and on the way google maps took me the route that goes past his work…"
Wednesday
Mrs.Hehar replied to Mike's discussion Why did this happen? in the group Widowed in 2017
"Hi Mike I go through those questions more times than I would like to admit..... My husband was killed on November 15, 2017 by a man who thought he could beat the red.... anyway, I have asked the same questions many times, to many people, and even…"
Feb 12
Sonu left a comment for Mrs.Hehar
"Mrs. Hehar your words reflect mine. I can literally feel your pain and I am so so sorry dear. I wish I could rewind time. I have sent you a message, kindly check that one. I am facing a hell lot of problems too. We always compare death to bad and…"
Feb 1
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I have a question, I know most ppl will answer with it varies with each individual.  When will it be bearable? Are the tears ever going to stop? Will there be days when I won’t cry?  Ive decided I’m going to reach out to a…"
Feb 1
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Is there something in the air today? I can relate to you all because I’ve been upset all day, unbearable pain and tears that are never ending, 11 weeks have rolled by and it feels like yesterday I saw him laying there lifeless. I don’t…"
Jan 31
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hi Sonu, I see you are from India, I am actually Punjabi. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. It really is the hardest thing I have had to go thru in my life. My husband and I had our legal marriage in 2016 but our religious…"
Jan 12
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Its been 57 days, I still wake up in tears, throughout the day I feel the tears rolling down my cheeks. The days I am busy, my head kills, my body hurts. I still pray to god to give me my husband back, knowing that will never happen. I feel so…"
Jan 11
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Its new years eve... and although I didn't expect it to be the worst feeling ever, thats how I feel right now. I got home from service and as soon as I entered our bedroom I broke out into tears. On the drive back I happened to open facebook…"
Dec 31, 2017
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A Different Christmas at Widowed Village Chat Room

December 25, 2017 all day
For some, this will be your first Christmas without your loved one ... for others of us, we've done this before but it still isn't easy.  Will you be joining friends or family? Have you decided to create a new tradition? Are you spending the day alone? Is this an anniversary or birthday month, too?If the day is a hard one for you, please remember that someone will be here in the chat room to lend a listening ear, to share experiences, to hold your hand, and maybe even to share some smiles,…See More
Dec 24, 2017
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hi Debbie, It feels so much more difficult as the days go on, I find that my eyes are always full of tears. I had a dream that I was hugging him and telling him not to go to work, felt so real, like it was that same morning. I woke up in tears…"
Dec 19, 2017
Mrs.Hehar commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 80s
"Hi,  I’m new here. I’m 35 and my husband was 31 years old when he passed away 27 days ago. I feel like I died with him. I try my best to hold it together and cry when no one is looking. He was killed in a motor vehicle accident. We…"
Dec 12, 2017
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Mrs.Hehar
"Welcome to Widville, Mrs.Hehar.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Dec 11, 2017

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At 6:29pm on February 1, 2018, Sonu said…

Mrs. Hehar your words reflect mine. I can literally feel your pain and I am so so sorry dear. I wish I could rewind time. I have sent you a message, kindly check that one. I am facing a hell lot of problems too. We always compare death to bad and living to good. But i would say living with the death of a loved one is actually death. I have innumerable number of questions but i don't want to talk to anyone.I want to sit in a dark and isolated. I am facing similar problems like you. So if you want we can share. Kindly check yr inbox. 

At 5:36pm on December 11, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Mrs.Hehar.  I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

 

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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