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Mrs.Linda
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Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Yesterday at the 7 month anniversary of Dan's passing, I seemed to hear his whistle!  That was rather strange.  I have not had any sense of his presence or anything all this time but I heard his distinctive whistle. Not sure what that…"
May 28
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"I would not say I am depressed. But like today when I kept myself busy all day and have yard work that my husband always liked to do but is a chore for me and had my lonely supper and watched a video and the loneliness swept over me.  And my…"
May 25
Mrs.Linda replied to Canshifter's discussion What is the most insensitive thing someone has said to you about your loss?
"At almost 7 months since I lost my husband, someone asked me yesterday, "Do you still miss Dan?" I just looked at her."
May 19
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"I got a note in the mail just yesterday offering to buy my house!  There is so much to do here in upkeep.  My husband loved tinkering about the place and all the yard work.  I am losing count of how many replacements and repairs I…"
May 17
Mrs.Linda replied to sis's discussion Drowning In Immense Sadness
"Today was not a good day. Cold and rainy. I was busy in the morning. But the thought of coming home to a cold empty house really bothered me a lot. Luckily I have a little project to work on this afternoon but still I cried.  I kept wanting to…"
May 9
Mrs.Linda replied to JK (OK)'s discussion Having a hard time taking my wife off of accounts, etc...Is anyone else having trouble? Is it important?
"At six and a half months, most of the financial things have been taken care. I worked hard to consolidate investments, etc. so I can understand and manage them.  There is just one more out there that we cannot seem to get turned loose. All the…"
May 8
Mrs.Linda replied to Doug02122014's discussion What to do with spouses personal effects and when?
"I went through my husband's things in the first month.  My brother and my sons had first dibs on what they could use. Several big bags went to charity.  I still have some of his most iconic clothes and looking at them is hard.  I…"
May 8
Mrs.Linda replied to sis's discussion Drowning In Immense Sadness
"It has been six and half months since I lost my Dan. Just the passing of time seems a bit unreal considering that I met him when I was 20 and was married to him for 42 years. The two shall become one it is said and half of me is no longer here with…"
May 8
Mrs.Linda replied to cushty1's discussion One year later and no one remembers
"My husband had a holy death with all the sacraments and that was a huge comfort. This is what we all hope for."
May 6
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Another Holiday
"This first Easter without Dan was bitter sweet.  My oldest son and family (1 granddaughter) and my brother were with me.  My younger son chose to be elsewhere and he has been distant. I felt strongly that half of my family was missing,…"
May 2
Mrs.Linda replied to cushty1's discussion One year later and no one remembers
"My husband passed away on the 27th of October last year. While I think of him everyday, I especially note the 27th of each month. Being a Catholic, I have Masses said for the repose of his soul every month on the 27th.  I will continue to…"
May 2
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"It is now 6 months for me as well.  I just took a few days  of retreat to think and pray and that has brought me more peace.  You might think this is silly but I was wearing both my wedding ring and my husband's.  I took…"
May 2
Mrs.Linda replied to Doug02122014's discussion What to do with spouses personal effects and when?
"I did go through my husband's clothing within the first month.  I let my sons and brother have a first crack at what they wanted. ALL the ties were taken right away!  The things I knew would not fit or they would not want went to…"
Apr 18
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Dreams
"I can totally understand.  You know, there was a time years ago I entertained the thought of leaving my husband. Foolish me.  I got over it.  I have not dreamed of my husband which is a little surprising.  But I can still…"
Apr 18
Mrs.Linda replied to Jill's discussion How old were you when your spouse died? How does your age affect your self-concept now that you're on your own?
"I lost my husband of 42 years almost 6 months ago at age 64.  And I have some concerns about growing old alone.  I have visited the elderly pretty much all my adult life and do so now.  I have seen many tears and sorrows of lonely and…"
Apr 18
Mrs.Linda replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Has anyone else gotten worse as time goes by?
"Oh Lisa!  I like your picture; what a handsome couple!  I have dreaded summer and the outside work that my husband actually enjoyed.  I learned to mow the lawn-and we have a good sized lot--2 years ago.   I do not do it all in…"
Apr 18

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At 7:34am on April 18, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Mrs.Linda. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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