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Steve commented on MyJoyMyLightMyLove's blog post No Title
"Hi, im sorry to hear that your brother isnt more caring, empathetic, supportive. I take it maybe, he has never been thru something like this? Thats what i find, anyway. People who have lost someone close, get it, others dont. The people who dont get…"
May 23
ashleynicole8378 commented on MyJoyMyLightMyLove's blog post No Title
"So sorry you are having a hard time with this. I still considered myself married too, but it's only been 3 months for me. I still wear my wedding ring and honestly don't know if I'll ever stop. I get comfort in looking at both my…"
Apr 18
only1sue commented on MyJoyMyLightMyLove's blog post No Title
"Yes, it is hard to reinvent yourself, no, you do not want to do it. You are early on in this journey as yet and your brother does not and will never understand what you are going through.  You, like all of us, will go through many stages of…"
Apr 14
widow85 commented on MyJoyMyLightMyLove's blog post No Title
"So maybe you need to take out an ad "Wanted:  Pictureless widow to take my brother off my hands.""
Apr 13
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I was doing fine. I was taking charge of my own life. I was refinancing. I was doing fine until I got to the point where next to my name, in BIG letters, I read "UNMARRIED." Was it just me or did the…

I was doing fine. I was taking charge of my own life. I was refinancing. I was doing fine until I got to the point where next to my name, in BIG letters, I read "UNMARRIED." Was it just me or did they purposefully make the font 10 times bigger?! I don't think of myself as unmarried. I will always be married to Chris. Those vows might as well have said, "Into eternity," instead of "until death do us part." Now I'm sitting here, sobbing, missing him. I'm upset that I didn't get the full amount of…See More
Apr 11
judy left a comment for MyJoyMyLightMyLove
"Hi My Joy, Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.   Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask…"
Aug 8, 2015

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I was doing fine. I was taking charge of my own life. I was refinancing. I was doing fine until I got to the point where next to my name, in BIG letters, I read "UNMARRIED." Was it just me or did the…

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I was doing fine. I was taking charge of my own life. I was refinancing. I was doing fine until I got to the point where next to my name, in BIG letters, I read "UNMARRIED." Was it just me or did they purposefully make the font 10 times bigger?! I don't think of myself as unmarried. I will always be married to Chris. Those vows might as well have said, "Into eternity," instead of "until death do us part." Now I'm sitting here, sobbing, missing him. I'm upset that I didn't get the full amount of… Continue

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At 11:41am on August 8, 2015, judy said…

Hi My Joy,

Welcome to Widowed Village. I am very sorry for your loss, but happy that you found us. You will find caring, loving support and friendship here.

 

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  Come in the chat room which is available 24/7 to you.  I look forward to getting to know you and support you through your journey.

 
 
 

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