My husband died 8 mos ago. I have found myself still in a state of shock and bewilderment. My brain feels fractured. I am ordinarily pretty intelligent, but I find myself really changed. I am hoping…Continue
"ohh, Jules, I'm so sorry for how suddenly and unexpectedly your husband died, and for how you re feeling right now. I'm not sure I think it was a very kind thing of the coroner to suggest that your husband knew, and went upstairs. He…"
"MissYou, my goodness, that sounds devastating. You have my most sincere sympathy...I can't imagine. I'm glad to hear that your younger daughter kept you going for her, (but how awful a loss for her, as well!) and that you are healing and…"
"Ahh, pvtess, I get ya. You ARE making a new life; it's just sometimes bewildering how different it is from what you may have projected it would be, 'before...' And, good or bad, it cannot help but be so different, so shockingly…"
"pvtess…. Ugh I'm sorry to hear you're sort of lost, lonely and shell shocked. We make plans and moves thinking the next day will be the same as today, and life throws us a wicked curve... I can't imagine how…"
"Hello, snagglefoot... I kept your post (which came by email) up on my desktop for days because I wanted to respond, so deeply did I feel for you. But this past week was a non stop, crushing week and I never got to it. I did notice that many did…"
"Ladyhawke, I am so so very sorry for you and your daughters and what you are going through. All grief is unique but some situations are complex, complicated by other factors such as yours and it's heartbreaking that you are not only grieving…"
"I came to this page thru a friend request (which, btw, I am sorry I have not replied yet... I will!) and I have just only read flower girl's comment, Dee's response and then I paged up and read Ozzy's original post. You all have my…"
"Miket, you bring up a good topic. The answers will vary by each individual. For myself, I actually was not even wearing my rings for years while my husband was living because I lost weight causing them to fall off in the dishpan or…"
"edgless, I am so sorry; your pain is so palpable... I'm so glad you are seeking out avenues of comfort and support like this site and the excellent therapist. It will take time, much time, and may cycle round a bit, but you will be…"
I've been catching some of these recent posts by email. You all are talking about the very thing I have been talking about with my daughter, my friend and my therapist, lately.... because I am in that season right now.