"I can understand what you say about compartmentalizing. I went into a "just do it" mode once my husband began to get really sick at the end of his cancer battle. I was efficient and took good care of him, managing his meds, his…"
"Yes, ShirleyB, it feels surreal to me too. I cry a lot. I'm kind of amazed how much I can cry! I do think that this great grief is the price I am having to pay for the great love I had. And while I would never in a…"
"I, too, knew my husband was not going to survive, and yet the end took me by surprise. I find myself obsessively reliving the last day (that I didn't know was going to be his last) over and over in my mind: Would I have done…"
"I am so sorry for your loss. My husband Frank died a month ago after a 14 month battle with stomach cancer. For me too the sadness is overwhelming. I told a friend yesterday that "each day I wake up to a big bowl of sad…"
"I am so sorry for your loss. My husband died a month ago and I too struggle with feeling overwhelmed and scared. What helps me is to try to just live "one day at a time", or even one hour at a time. I just do whatever the…"
"Welcome to Widville, NancyD. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit…"
Welcome to Widville, NancyD. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.