"Inside Love: You are so right about knowing intuitively that the loss of a beloved spouse is not something to "get through". Where does that idea come from? I know intuitively too that it is just crazy to think I could…"
"ShirleyB, you are right. I'm not judging anybody's sh*t here but the saga continued today and I still don't have my money. The bank guy just called me to tell me I should come in again tomorrow to finalize the process of…"
"45 days. I am still mostly just SO SAD. But this afternoon I also felt just plain overwhelmed. Very defeated. I have been working with Wells Fargo bank to accomplish three things: close a checking account that was in my…"
"I am so sorry for your loss and sorry that you get to be part of this group. My husband has been gone for 6 weeks now and I feel all of those feelings you so well describe here. Coming to accept the reality is just a long painful…"
"I can understand what you say about compartmentalizing. I went into a "just do it" mode once my husband began to get really sick at the end of his cancer battle. I was efficient and took good care of him, managing his meds, his…"
"Yes, ShirleyB, it feels surreal to me too. I cry a lot. I'm kind of amazed how much I can cry! I do think that this great grief is the price I am having to pay for the great love I had. And while I would never in a…"
"I, too, knew my husband was not going to survive, and yet the end took me by surprise. I find myself obsessively reliving the last day (that I didn't know was going to be his last) over and over in my mind: Would I have done…"
"I am so sorry for your loss. My husband Frank died a month ago after a 14 month battle with stomach cancer. For me too the sadness is overwhelming. I told a friend yesterday that "each day I wake up to a big bowl of sad…"
"I am so sorry for your loss. My husband died a month ago and I too struggle with feeling overwhelmed and scared. What helps me is to try to just live "one day at a time", or even one hour at a time. I just do whatever the…"
"Welcome to Widville, NancyD. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit…"
Welcome to Widville, NancyD. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.