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Update? Oh My....
Oh my... a lot has happened. How shall I begin.... maybe I'll just go all over the place.Back on Anti Depressant. Prozac now... it's something new. I think I've been on it for a month now... the rainy November in Vancouver (New Westminster) is just too horrible to bear. Feeling down ever since I came back from Montreal form a bachelor party. Surprisingly, it works. I haven't had any bad side effect except a few breakouts in zits and problems staying asleep. That is not as bad as having anxiety…See More
telechick commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"I've been travelling a lot this summer and coming home is always difficult. It's when I miss Corey the most sharply - knowing that he won't be there to greet me. It is so hard.
It is really tough when you lose your booster…"
Nathan commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"Hi all, thank you for the wonderful helpful response and advice. I decided not to drink coffee and substitute it with Tea and my twitching was gone. I'll give a few days break from coffee and go back on and see what happens.
The eye…"
carolynne commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"Nathan, it's so good to hear from you. Be careful with the new supplement and trying to change too many things at once. I'm jealous of all the travel you've been doing. I always have a hard time coming home when I'm away,…"
Blue Snow commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"It's really nice when people come back with updates! It sounds like you've had some positive changes in your life along with a few low points, but still making some progress. Can't believe all the traveling you've done! I wish I…"
Joyce commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"Hi Nathan, nice to see you back here again. Sometimes when we do a lot of travelling coming home can be depressing. Just give yourself a chance to adjust. Sending hugs!"
Supa Dupa Fresh commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"Good to hear from you, friend.
X"
kittycat commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"Dearest Nathan, I noticed the time of your post was 1:00 am, looks like you are not sleeping well. Try not to change too many addictions at one time, if you are going to change to a different anti-depressant don't try to quit coffee…"
janet commented on Nathan's blog post It's been awhile...
"(((Nathan))). I agree that I think there are times when we need a break. We each grieve at our own pace and in our own way. Discovering who we are is difficult for each of us. It is like we are in a rough sea and are…"
Nathan posted a blog post
It's been awhile...
It's been awhile since I last posted. I decided to give a break and see if I can break out of my depression. Had 2 deaths during the summer (my Grandmother and my good friend John) which put me under a lot of thinking about life. I also thought maybe writing blog might also trigger some kind of sadness and depression. I decided to give blogging a long break but keeping myself busy. Here's an update... Been traveling a lot up til now. I think I need this kind of break... Went to Philippines,…See More
Nathan replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion For those who have dated... how did you know when you were ready?
"Hi Mary,
I feel the same way. I ask MIchael best friend about how i dont feel the same for the person i am dating(and any new future dates) and afriad I wont love him to the full extent because of my love for Michael. What he told me was, "you…"
Nathan replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion For those who have dated... how did you know when you were ready?
"Evildad; sorry to hear about the lost of your 2 wives.
Dating is hard for me.
I tried,
I don't want commitment, but the new person I'm seeing is already commiting to me. He knows I'm greiving and he said he'll…"
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Update? Oh My....
Posted on December 8, 2012 at 12:38am 2 Comments 0 Likes
Oh my... a lot has happened. How shall I begin.... maybe I'll just go all over the place.
Back on Anti Depressant. Prozac now... it's something new. I think I've been on it for a month now... the rainy November in Vancouver (New Westminster) is just too horrible to bear. Feeling down ever since I came back from Montreal form a bachelor party. Surprisingly, it works. I haven't had any bad side effect except a few breakouts in zits and problems staying asleep. That is not as…
Continue It's been awhile...
Posted on October 18, 2012 at 1:00am 8 Comments 0 Likes
It's been awhile since I last posted. I decided to give a break and see if I can break out of my depression. Had 2 deaths during the summer (my Grandmother and my good friend John) which put me under a lot of thinking about life. I also thought maybe writing blog might also trigger some kind of sadness and depression.
I decided to give blogging a long break but keeping myself busy.
Here's an update...
Been traveling a lot up…
Continue One Year Reunion
Posted on June 19, 2012 at 2:30am 2 Comments 0 Likes
Saturday:
Went to John funeral at 2:30 at Christ Church Cathedral. The service ended at 4, lovely speech made by the Pastor. John wanted his theme to be about "Resurrection". He describe John down to the tee. A lovely, kind, cheerful and full of jokes and laughter. He see things differently then most men. How life dies and resurrect into another being or form. I think that's how the Priest described it.
I couldn't stay for the reception, I hope wasn't…
Continue Weekday
Posted on June 14, 2012 at 3:32am 3 Comments 0 Likes
Been busy lately. Internet was down all last weekend and just got it back up yesterday. I am somewhat in a lazy mood also in the early morning. Just lying around starring at the WALL seem to make my day feel normal? Is that even Normal??
Maybe I'm heading back into depression?
I really miss Michael.
Gosh, it went by so fast, a year... it just feel like a few months.
So much had happened, but still, nothing feel accomplished.
Today, I help my roommate…
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- At 3:31pm on August 9, 2012,
Lee said… Hi Nathan,
Boy am I dumb. I did not know of this comment thread and just found it. If I ever get a passport and decide to go up north, I will let you know and maybe we can do lunch or something. I am really sorry for your loss. I know that whether our special love was of the same sex or different sex the loss still hurts in our heart.
Again, I am sorry for not answering earlier.
Your friend Lee
- At 3:27pm on June 22, 2012,
Renee said… Happy Belated Birthday Nathan, I hope you had a good day, Hugs
- At 11:38pm on June 19, 2012,
carolynne said… Nathan, I hope you were able to find some joy today in your birthday. (((hugs))) sending love and peace.
- At 9:52pm on June 19, 2012,
VOLUNTEERSupa Dupa Fresh said… I hope your birthday is an opportunity to look ahead and find some great memories too. Thanks for all you share here... you are loved.
X
Supa
- At 9:06am on June 18, 2012,
kimkirt (KK) said… Happy Birthday, Nathan. I hope you are able to find some happiness today in your memories. Hugs, friend!
- At 6:40pm on April 14, 2012,
Hunt said… Thank you for friending me Nathan. Nice chatting with you this morning.
- At 11:23pm on February 28, 2012,
Greggies Widow said… Thank you for adding me as a friend Nathan. Looking forward to getting to know you. Will you be at Camp Widow?
- At 8:15am on February 28, 2012, kimkirt (KK) said…
Hi Nathan, anytime you need a HUG just let me know. HUG!
Kim
- At 1:48am on February 28, 2012,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
Thank you Nathan for the friend invite, and glad I could make you smile.
- At 12:19am on February 28, 2012,
smit09 said… it was nice chatting with you tonight too!!
sucks that we've been forced to find this place, but wow how powerful of a place it has been.
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