"David's girl still...That wall just comes and hits us when we least expect it. When I think about it, It's so nice to know that we all miss and still love our loved ones. isn't that great? Love! But…"
"yes Sharrona. We certainly understand. I really do think people feel that you are over the loss even at 4 yrs. My sister mentioned that yesterday about how hard it was for me to get over my husband's loss. I'm not…"
"I think I'm just feeling sorry for myself. I'm sure I will get over it. I've had so much family here for the last three weeks that I guess it is a let down. My oldest son was here for another five days after the…"
"So now that my son's wedding is over. I do somehow feel lost. Even though he lived with me for a while why he was getting his act together, I never felt dependent on him. Maybe I was dependent on him. He spent lots of…"
"LifesAJourney, thank you so much. It was a great day. A few tears (privately) were shed. I felt that I could have just sat a cried a few times during the wedding but I kept myself "under control". People would have…"
"Susieg, well I cooked for 50+ people but not all the food (thank goodness). My sister and sister in law made some food and some friends helped out too. Every thing turned out so well. (except for the children of cousins, nieces…"
"Hi all....Susieg, I know what you mean. I've lost that something too. I don't feel the same either. I'm not sure if I will be happy again either but I am hoping for that. I've been lucky to have many…"
"Hi LifesAJourney, I think we are all in the same boat. I think I have moved on to an extent. My niece calls me a realist. I guess I am. I do understand that my husband isn't coming back and have accepted that part.…"
"dazed...You are right. No one wants to hear about it. They listen sometimes but don't really understand. Actually when I think about it, I don't think I understood what people went through (that lost their spouse). …"
"Tweedles, That's a wonderful thing to do....community service and a day of reflection. You are right...our men live on through their spirit around us. Try to enjoy your day and remember the good times. Those are the ways that…"
"Hi Debbie, Thanks! As we all know it's tough losing someone. I knew her since I was about 3/4 yrs old. Her family lived across the street from me growing up. 60 yrs is a long time to know someone. I will be 64 in…"
"Lisa, I don't imagine that we will ever forget our loved one(s). So sad really. One thing that bothered me was that after you take his name off of everything it's like he never existed in the first place and that's just…"
"Hi Debbie, I guess we all go through our trials. I'm tired of the whole thing. Wish my husband was still here especially since our youngest son is getting married in two weeks. he would love to see everyone that is coming down…"
"Debbie0423, I have to say you hit the nail on the head..."people just don't get it". That is so true. It's almost 3 1/2 yrs since my husband passed. I lost my husband and 3 weeks later my Dad passed away.…"
"Until I read some of these postings, I finally feel I am crawling out from beneath the pain of grief. It was 3 yrs ago December that my husband passed suddenly. I cried for almost 2 1/2 yrs daily (at one time or another). Maybe…"
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