Nice does matter. I've had "nice intentended" stop by to check on me, if i needed help etc but that was not actually their intentions. I feel vulnerable not knowing for sure if they mean well. So i've shut myself off from most. I don't bother my married children who live out of state. They really don't "get it" being alone suddenly after having you're someone there even though each is busy doing something different. What it like to wake up & realize you're really alone. You're not able to relate that crazy dream you just had. I think i am still in a rambling stage sorry. These feelings just surface, jumbled about. Do we ever get them sorted out? Is there really ever an acceptance that this is the new normal. Like covid?
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