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Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
Started this discussion. Last reply by Jerry Aug 13, 2012. 10 Replies 0 Likes
I am wondering if anyone can tell me where I should post this or if there is an area designated for this type of discussion? I don't want to upset anyone and was hoping there was an area for this…Continue
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Jerry replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
kimkirt (KK) replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Congratulations to you and I totally agree with the honesty suggestion. I don't think it would ever occur to your son that his dad was second choice. I was the third wife for my husband, and he had children with all three, and I don't…"
grace28 replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"As far as I'm concerned, you can post anywhere because most of us love to see someone get their life back together! It's hope for us. Obviously, you're a lot younger than most of us. The problem with all sites, is that people…"
Nikki S replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Thank you everyone for your congratulations and support! LaurieR, I think you are dead on with our losses assigning us way too much guilt and MsKris12 you are absolutely right that we adults are the ones that complicate the hell out of everything!…"
LaurieR replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Congratulation.I think death of a loved one assigns us far to much guilt. I believe that we are both blessed and cursed in time when you start forgetting little details about your loved ones then you start remembering them with joy. I agree…"
Dianne in Nevada replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Kris' post is right-on on all points (as usual!) ... and I can't think of a thing to add other than my congratulations to you and your husband ... and the soon to be wonderful addition to your family. Good luck - and post pictures for us!"
MsKris12 replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Wonderful for you Nikki! Don't think of it as letting go of your grief as it will always be there somewhere, but it is just getting "file" further and further back as your life moves forward. Note, I said moves forward not…"
Nikki S replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Ok well in that case :) I am a little over 5 and a half years out and met my now husband 3 years ago. We got married in September 2010. He is a wonderful man and has been so wonderful about being understanding of my loss and my grief. I am also 9…"
kimkirt (KK) replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"I agree with Cristina, share away!"
Cristina replied to Nikki S's discussion Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
"Congratulations, and, no worries - your story will give others of us hope, and great happiness for you. Share away, that's my take!"
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Not sure where I should post but, remarried and starting a family?????
I am wondering if anyone can tell me where I should post this or if there is an area designated for this type of discussion? I don't want to upset anyone and was hoping there was an area for this type of topic?
Nikki S replied to TrippinToni's discussion How long does it take to rid the zombie thing, I feel like a walking Zombie. Alive on the outside dead on the inside.
"It took a good 3 years I would say for me to start really coming out of the "fog". I think we all handle it in a very personally way and our time frames will of course be different, but it will clear and you will feel like a person again.…"
Nikki S replied to justme's discussion Are there any good movies about widows?
"I loved P.S. I love you. It touched on A LOT of emotions I went through"
Nikki S replied to Supa Dupa Fresh's discussion Losing my home.
"I personally never went back to our home. I couldn't stand going back knowing he wouldn't be there and I knew I would sit and watch the door hoping he would come walking in with that goofy grin. Plus his accident site is a block away from…"
Nikki S replied to Jill's discussion Share one small but very special, unique trait or memory about your late spouse. Something to make you and the rest of us smile.
"Chris was one of the smallest men ever lol (at 5'10 he was only 127lbs) but he was like a bull in a china store. His little a** could and would would break anything and everything (accidentally of course) lol. He was so funny you couldn't…"
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- At 1:19am on September 19, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
Nikki,
May you be surrounded by love and peace on your special day.
Dianne
- At 10:27am on August 1, 2011,
CrazyWidow said… - Thanks for joining Born in the 80s. We're glad to have you here, sorry with the circumstances that brought you here though.
- At 6:49pm on July 29, 2011,
MrsHulse (Missy) said… - Welcome I am so sorry for your loss if there is anything I can do please contact me sending you big (((((((HUGS)))))))
- At 3:59pm on July 29, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
- So sorry for the reason your here but glad you found us. This path we are all on is best traveled together.
- At 11:52pm on July 28, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…
So pleased you found us, Nikki. Take a look around - in Groups, Forums and the Chat Room. You'll find wonderful support here.
- At 10:24pm on July 28, 2011,
NMWidower said… - Welcome to Widowed Village Nikki. I hope you find hope and encouragement here!
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