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Noelene T
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  • North Coast NSW
  • Australia
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Morgana (Janet) left a comment for Noelene T
"Welcome Noelene and I am very sorry for the reason you are here. There are several widows in Australia. Dawn lives somewhere around the south in NSW, CherylC lives close to Sydney and Emma lives on the west side of Australia. They are all members…"
Apr 8
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I would do it all again in a heartbeat. He used to say to me that he was a burden. When he said that i told him that what I did for him was a labour of love, which it was. I till mis him so much. As you say the sheer loneliness at night is the…"
Apr 8
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi everyone, have been reading your posts about moving after a bereavement. I did this after my husband died 14 months ago. He was almost an invalid the last few months of his life and lost control of his bowels and bladder. It was so degrading for…"
Apr 7
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi Laurajay. Glad you made it through all the first anniversaries. It is very difficult, i know. I have just been through the first anniversary of my husband’s death. It was the last “first” for me. It was very sad but I got…"
Apr 1
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi Barbee, no I am not getting these emails.must be a glitz your end"
Mar 8
tapevad replied to Noelene T's discussion Coping with yearning for dead husband in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"I moved back to the Carolinas because I bought his body back home to bury him. Getting involved with Christian women fellowship. I want to reach out and help others. Trying to keep myself busy. "
Feb 25
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"A wonderful poem barbie. It epitomises how i am on some days. Sometimes I don’t shower and sit around in my nightie all day. Other days I feel almost normal again and get through the day ok. It is a very personal and sad journey"
Feb 25
Noelene T commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"laurajay you are so lucky to have a recording of his voice. I would give anything to hear him say “I love you duck” Pictures are wonderful but they can’t make up for the sound of their voice or the feel of their arms around…"
Feb 25
Noelene T replied to Noelene T's discussion Coping with yearning for dead husband in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi tapevad, thank you for your comments. My husband’s ist anniversary has just passed and it was a very sad day. I went with a friend to his favourite Thai restaurant for lunch and had a glass of wine to toast him. He always enjoyed a glass of…"
Feb 24
tapevad replied to Noelene T's discussion Coping with yearning for dead husband in the group Born in the 40s or Earlier
"Hi, I truly understand what you’re going through. Nothing can seem to fill the void in my life. I stay up late at night just thinking. Please feel free to reach out to me anytime. My husband also had prostate cancer"
Feb 24
Noelene T commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"Heidi, my heart goes out to you. To lose one person you love dearly is hard enough but to lose two in quick succession must be unbearable. Al the “firsts” are extremely hard. On mu husbands anniversary a friend and I went to his…"
Feb 21
Heidi57 commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"Thank you for sharing your poem.  It resonates with me especially the "now I have a new life than I have to get through....."  My husband, Gord, passed away on Sept. 22/18 age 64.  We'd been together since I was 17 and…"
Feb 21
Racingfan60 commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"That poem really expresses the way I feel each and every day it has been almost 3 years since I lost my husband suddenly at the age of 59. I feel as if life will never be the same for me."
Feb 19
Noelene T commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"Hi Diva, thank you for your kind words. I know what you mean about being on your own. The worst time for me is at night when it s quiet and only the tv is on. Through the day I can find things to do but at night I find myself yearning for his…"
Feb 18
Noelene T commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"When I was in the hospital with him on the day he died he was only semi conscious and as the day wore on he slipped into a coma. At first I kept saying to myself “please don’t go on Valentine’s Day” but as the time wore on…"
Feb 18
sis commented on Noelene T's blog post Noelene Tauris
"My heart hurts for you. I know how emotional it has been for me having my anniversary connection to Valentines Day. As soon as Christmas is over you get bombarded with everything Valentines and there is little chance of getting away from it.…"
Feb 18

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Posted on February 17, 2019 at 4:26am 10 Comments

Hi everyone, it is awhile since I posted. I have just gotten through the 1st anniversary of my husbands death. It was a very sad day but not as bad as I thought it would be. I went out with a friend who had lost her husband 18months before I lost mine. We went to a movie and then went to his favourite Thai restaurant for lunch, i had a glass of wine to toast him as he loved a glass of wine. My family and friends all posted lovely messages on facebook and my beautiful granddaughter sent me a…

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Hi Diva, thank you for your kind words. Sometimes it is like I am under water and struggling to come up for air. It seems I am crying more now after 10 months than I did in the earlier months. Maybe …

Posted on November 29, 2018 at 6:31am 0 Comments

Hi Diva, thank you for your kind words. Sometimes it is like I am under water and struggling to come up for air. It seems I am crying more now after 10 months than I did in the earlier months. Maybe it has something to do with Christmas coming up. Even at 78 I was still IN love with Gil. We had a wonderful life together and I am sorry we didn’t meet sooner so we could have had longer together. In hindsight 26 years was not enough.what I miss the most is thr feel of his arms around me and his…

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At 6:11pm on April 8, 2019, Morgana (Janet) said…

Welcome Noelene and I am very sorry for the reason you are here. There are several widows in Australia. Dawn lives somewhere around the south in NSW, CherylC lives close to Sydney and Emma lives on the west side of Australia. They are all members here and I am friends with them on FB. Let me know if you would like to connect with them on FB. If you do I will get with each of them and let them know there is another widow who has joined this site and give them your screen name. 

At 12:09am on November 28, 2018, Rainy (Misty) said…

Hi Nolene, I have read some of your post but can't reply as I'm not a member of that group.  My heart just breaks for you.  Unfortunately, no body and tell you how long you'll feel the way you feel.  I kept asking that same question when I came here.   

You aren't alone and we all understand just how you feel.  I wish there was something I can say to ease your pain but the simple truth is time is the only thing that can give you some relief.  Connecting with other widows has been very helpful for me.  ((Hugs)) I pray for peace to come to you.  

At 4:16pm on November 22, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Soaring Spirits International has partnered with First Light Widowed Association, an organization for widowed people in Australia, to provide a forum for our Aussie widows to connect here in the Village. Here’s a link to that page:  http://widowedvillage.org/group/first-light-widowed-association

At 4:14pm on November 22, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Noelene T. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and Chat Room for conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.

 
 
 

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