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Is it easier to believe that God does not exist?

Posted on August 10, 2014 at 7:15pm 1 Comment

Is it easier to believe that God does not exist?

You may not believe in God, or you may believe that He is a governing force that started this world into motion but cares very little about any of us individually.  All of the bad and evil in this world may lead you to believe these things... 

"How could God let bad things happen?"  …


Waiting for the Fourth Watch...  Stretching My Faith and Trust    As I have been trying to wait patiently and have faith and trust in God concerning the sale of my house, a story from my past keep…

Posted on June 19, 2014 at 5:56am 0 Comments

Waiting for the Fourth Watch... 

Stretching My Faith and Trust 


As I have been trying to wait patiently and have faith and trust in God concerning the sale of my house, a story from my past keeps entering my…


Changing Drivers

Posted on June 9, 2014 at 7:00pm 6 Comments

Changing Drivers (Stepping into the drivers seat)
Driving at Laguna Seca Race Track- Nov 10, 2012

Oct 8, 2013

To say my husband loved cars would be an understatement. He bought them as often…


From the Beginning... and Before the Accident

Posted on June 2, 2014 at 7:03pm 0 Comments

From the Beginning... (link)

From the Beginning...

Once upon a time...

If you are new to my blog I thought you might want to start at the beginning.  This is my…

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At 3:30pm on July 14, 2014, Jenna said…

Thank you, Veronica! My kids are 12, 10, and 8(twins). They surprise me with how resilient they are.. and they also have their difficult days. The way my husband's life was taken has been really hard to accept, but I also know we are all facing tremendous loss and we all have our stories.

You are so right about reaching out to others. My theory is that the pain is too big and, as a result, it must go somewhere. Helping others is an extension of that pain outwardly expressed as love.

Did your kids have counselling? Most importantly, how are they doing now? They are so lucky to have a mom who shows them how to connect with life again in spite of their loss. That's something I am struggling with and know I've come to learn. Thank you for reaching out with your contact info. Blessings to you! 


At 12:43pm on July 13, 2014, silverlady said…
Thank you for your friend request and for your comment. I found out about your blog a few weeks ago and subscribed. While you struggle like all the rest of us, you are indeed an inspiration. I hope this day has some joys in it for you.
At 6:15am on July 11, 2014, MrsRichieD said…

Not4Naught.  I just want to thank you for your last blogpost.  It was an inspiration!

At 11:54am on July 6, 2014, Gaining Strength said…

Hi Not4naught,

Thank you for your friend request. You are a brave and inspiring young lady who has much to offer the world. I hope that you are doing well today.

Gaining Strength.

At 5:15pm on June 5, 2014, Jackie said…

Thanks for your friend request.  Been trying to do this alone but realize that I need to be the company of people who understand.  Sorry for your loss but happy you reached out for me.

At 2:43pm on June 5, 2014, Bruja said…
Thanks for the friend request :-). Sorry you qualify but happy to meet u. Some really amazing people here, I'm privileged to be a part of it. Hugs xx yvonne
At 12:32pm on June 3, 2014, DonEverest said…


    I found the group and clicked on "Join".  Didn't see any place to add comments.  I guess someone from the group will contact me?


At 11:13am on June 3, 2014, DonEverest said…

    No, I wasn't aware of that group!  I have a sister living in Springville, UT not far away.  I could make the meeting next March.  How do I get into the group?  Do you have a link for it?

At 1:32am on May 28, 2014, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Not4naught.  I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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