Hello,My wife passed Oct of last year. I'm 46 and I have an 11 Yo little girl.Back when i was 23 I had 3 girlfriends all 18 years old (they all knew about each other btw) My wife was one of them, I…Continue
"Sigh.. Why does life have to be so hard?
Why does grief have to come back and hit you like a brick to the head and send everything into a spiral?
Everything has been great. But i find myself trying to distance myself from her. Even when she is here…"
"Have not been on in awhile,
About a week after the breakup,I took her to lunch to talk and see if we could salvage a friendship out of our situation.
While eating she began to cry,She is a very tough woman and is not one to cry.
She took the blame…"
"she still messages me.. today i took her things over to her that she left here. we hugged for a long time and i left.
She texted as i drove away saying "that was hard"
Later tonight she texted and said she was sorry for everything…"
"I haven't been around for a while but I read this thread and it hit home with me. I just went through this and ended it tonight. I had been dating him for 8 months but like you I was worried at first, I still think about my husband. I miss him…"
"we have texted a few times. tonight she said "I miss u,I just thought you should know" i kinda teared up a little.. but responded with "Yeah i miss u too" and then moved one to talking about my beard and if i could use a…"
"I haven't been on in a while but I just read through all of this....from the sound of excitement to yesterdays post. I am proud of you for saying all that you did to her in the end, and being honest from the get go. From a womans…"
"I stopped by her house today after work and tried to talk..but nothing was really said..so later tonight I texted her and she still had the same rude tone in her texts... So i decided that i had enough of feeling like i am doing things wrong, and i…"
"From what I see, you are not doing anything wrong. You've been open and real with her. I think she has been making a real effort to slow down and not push you and now, when she's sick, she's less able to control her…"
"Sigh.. the fireball i assumed would happen, happened i think.
She got the flu a couple weeks ago and stayed home because she prefers to be alone when sick.
And she is just getting over it still but we have been texting for a few days.
She says i am…"
"I'm so trying to live again.. But i keep having setbacks..some my own mind and others are based on normal new relationship fears.
I sometimes feel myself trying to come up with excuses to kinda shy away from her when i get scared..then my brain…"
"I'm glad you are happy, and I really appreciate how much you have shared about your feelings in moving on. I know that I would have similar feelings of wanting to run towards life, but also of finding it hard to move on, and that these…"
"Hello again to anyone still following this thread.
Had a perfect night the other night on Saturday. I performed a wedding for a widowed friend of mine.
He lost his wife about a year and a half ago right before i lost mine. they had been together for…"
"I'm glad you posted that message,It really relived alot of things i have thought about, I don't ever want to stop loving my wife. she was the greatest woman i have ever met in my 47 years on this earth.
But i still have dreams of growing…"
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