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Ozzy turtle
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  • Beaverton, OR
  • United States
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sdonna left a comment for Ozzy turtle
"Hi Ozzy- We have can have peace knowing our loved ones are no longer in pain."
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sdonna left a comment for Ozzy turtle
"Hi Ozzy turtle- I know how difficult this must be for you. I lost my husband a few weeks ago and he also had COPD and heart problems. My heart goes out to you and your children. I am so sad to read the pain you are experiencing. I will be praying…"
Apr 16
Ozzy turtle replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"I'm sorry for your loss as well. The list is a really good idea, I will talk to my therapist about it as well, thank you for the idea. I agree one day, one hour, sometimes I feel like it's seconds. I think some of the reality is beginning…"
Apr 9
Ozzy turtle replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion 3 MONTHS AFTER in the group Widowed in 2019
"I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for the kind words and validation of all these different thoughts and emotions."
Apr 9
Marina replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"One minute at a time. One breath at a time. Everyone’s journey is their own. Be kind to yourself. Reach out to theta. Cry yell. Laugh. Whatever it takes. I’m here for you!"
Apr 8
Roxana replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion 3 MONTHS AFTER in the group Widowed in 2019
"Dear Ozzy, Of course it is normal to be broken to a million pieces, you lost your hest friend, your supporter, your companion through thick and thin, your helper, your lover. Marriage is a sacred institution in which the two become one. We are…"
Apr 8
Ozzy turtle added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2019
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3 MONTHS AFTER

On April 2nd it was exactly 3 months since I lost my husband, my best friend. It was just him and I. We have close friends that have stayed close to me, but it seems like everyone has disappeared. It just hit me I'm alone, I mean really hit me. The thought had been there but the reality. So I'm lost, alone and have no idea how to navigate anything anymore. I know how to say I'm pretty much done so he can come home now. I miss him so much, my heart aches my soul hurts. I miss my friend.Are these…See More
Apr 8
Ozzy turtle replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"Thank you so much"
Apr 8
Marina replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, am new to this feeling of utter loss and often feel as if I’m in a weird dream state. My husband of 19 years (and best friend of over 37 years) passed on December 12 after a 7 year battle with a host of…"
Mar 28
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Our Anniversary Party September 8, 2018. Our Friends planned it all
Mar 23
Ozzy turtle commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"My husband passed away on January 2 2019. He had a 10 year battle with COPD and five years with CHF. In October 2018 they said within 6 months, I guess it didn't register in my mind or heart. In December he went on Hospice so he could have the…"
Mar 23
Ozzy turtle replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you so much. One song I listen to a lot is Heaven needed a Hero. My husband was also a 13 year Army Veteran."
Mar 23
Ozzy turtle replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello, I'm new here. I lost my husband after a 10 year battle COPD on January 2 2019. My husband was 61 and I'm 45. Live in Oregon. I'm trying very hard to understand all the things and emotions happening. I'm  guessing this…"
Mar 14
Ozzy turtle replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion US: WEST - PACIFIC in the group Connect with others in your area
"Hello, I'm new here. Lost my husband on January 2, 2019. Wondering if anyone lives near by, I'm in Beaverton Oregon, a little outside of Portland."
Mar 14
Ozzy turtle replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"I'm trying so hard. The last couple of years seem like they have been non stop, cause I also took care of my husband."
Mar 9
Donna J. replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion I'm lost in the group Long-Term Illness
"Dear Ozzie Turtle. -  You are walking in a dream. It is the dream all of us, at one time or another have walked.  My husband died in 2017 after 48 years of marriage and I still buy things for him at the market, clip things I know…"
Mar 9

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At 9:35am on April 22, 2019, sdonna said…

Hi Ozzy-

We have can have peace knowing our loved ones are no longer in pain.

At 5:30pm on April 16, 2019, sdonna said…

Hi Ozzy turtle-

I know how difficult this must be for you. I lost my husband a few weeks ago and he also had COPD and heart problems. My heart goes out to you and your children. I am so sad to read the pain you are experiencing. I will be praying for you.

At 9:38am on March 8, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Ozzy turtle. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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