"Today is one month since my John left me.. still waiting for him to come home. :("
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Pammyb commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Almost a month here... my response is, as well, 'I'm here' and try to paste a smile on. "
Pammyb commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"How does life keep going on when I just want to curl up in a ball and stay there? A the million of little things are really everywhere. Just a random song which I never got the hang of but he knew every word is playing right now. …"
Pammyb liked jessiejess's blog post Nothing's going to knock this girl down
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Pammyb commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"Exactly!! Why not just say at the beginning this might delay the inevitable yet we arent sure what kind of quality of life he'll have after we do this or that... instead we believed we do this or that and it's…"
Pammyb commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Long-term illness
"I feel so much of what yall are saying. My hubby fought cancer over 2 years and I'm second guessing soooo many things. The hubby didn't wake up after the tumor removal (metastasized to brain from colo-rectal cancer), and after…"
Pammyb liked judy's event One Year Sadiversary without my Justin
Pammyb commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Hi Noreen, so sorry for your loss. Your John sounds like my John. Hope things get better. *hugs*"
Pammyb replied to Jill's discussion Share one small but very special, unique trait or memory about your late spouse. Something to make you and the rest of us smile.
"My John was one of a kind. Goofy for sure, that's why everyone he met instantly liked, then loved, him.
Just a few of the many things that make me smile. His pet name for me was 'Badees'. Baby, but in…"
Pammyb liked Dianna489's event Mike's Birthday!
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- At 8:47am on September 17, 2012,
kimkirt (KK) said… Welcome Pammyb. I am so sorry for the reason that brought you here, but hope that you can find comfort, hope and caring. There are so many wonderful people here and this site has literally saved me. HUGS to you!
- At 11:08pm on September 14, 2012,
Joyce said… Welcome Pammyb: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
- At 10:56pm on September 14, 2012,
SpiritWalker said… welcome Pammy.....sorry for your loss...hope you might come on over to chat and join us...otherwise pls know your cared for...Hugs
- At 10:49pm on September 14, 2012,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm sorry for your loss, Pammyb, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site InfoJoin the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.
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