"How does life keep going on when I just want to curl up in a ball and stay there? A the million of little things are really everywhere. Just a random song which I never got the hang of but he knew every word is playing right now. …"
"Exactly!! Why not just say at the beginning this might delay the inevitable yet we arent sure what kind of quality of life he'll have after we do this or that... instead we believed we do this or that and it's…"
"I feel so much of what yall are saying. My hubby fought cancer over 2 years and I'm second guessing soooo many things. The hubby didn't wake up after the tumor removal (metastasized to brain from colo-rectal cancer), and after…"
"My John was one of a kind. Goofy for sure, that's why everyone he met instantly liked, then loved, him.
Just a few of the many things that make me smile. His pet name for me was 'Badees'. Baby, but in…"
Welcome Pammyb. I am so sorry for the reason that brought you here, but hope that you can find comfort, hope and caring. There are so many wonderful people here and this site has literally saved me. HUGS to you!
Welcome Pammyb: I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I hope you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It".
I'm sorry for your loss, Pammyb, but glad you found us. There is caring support and friendship here. Here's a good place to start: Basic Site Info
Join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Those 'chirps' you hear when you're in Widowed Village mean people are talking in the Chat Room; stop in some time and join the conversations. I look forward to getting to know you here.