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Pat222
  • Female
  • Sykesville, MD
  • United States
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Feb 15
Pat222 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013
"Hi LindaP...I know what you mean about not being able to sleep or waking up to the horrible realization that your husband is no longer here. I found that if I kept a book on my ipod, I could read it in the dark and just fall asleep reading. Because…"
Feb 13
Pat222 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2013
"I am Pat. I am just a little over 6 months in, but wanted to post a note to those who will be joining in on this most difficult of journeys. Please know that those of us who are here understand the depth of pain, loneliness, and great sense of being…"
Jan 20
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Jan 20
momtofourkids (Jane) and Pat222 are now friends
Sep 25, 2012
Pat222 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Hi Missing RKK, I live in central Maryland in Carroll County near Westminster. I am about 35 minutes west of Baltimore and 45 minutes north of DC."
Sep 19, 2012
Pat222 is now friends with HeatherHP, srm541 and missinghugs (fran)
Sep 18, 2012
srm541 left a comment for Pat222
"HI Pat, I read you post and wanted you to know that felt your spirit, and added you as a friend.. that chatting tonight Sharon"
Sep 18, 2012
srm541 liked Pat222's blog post Did you feel the energy of your spouse start to leave after the first couple of weeks?
Sep 18, 2012
Pat222 commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2012
"Hi Karen, Sorry you are having such a rough day. I know things will get better for you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers that your house will sell and that you can move to a place that you will ease some of the rough days you have had."
Sep 18, 2012
Pat222 liked judy's event One Year Sadiversary without my Justin
Sep 9, 2012
Pat222 commented on AEDforever (Ali)'s blog post i found my self alone, alone, alone upon a raging sea....
"Ali,   I wish you luck.  I will also offer up prayers for you too.  The first time I went through this dark valley, I felt the same way.  I didn't move, but my friends left me.  They did not call, and if I invited them…"
Aug 29, 2012
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Aug 27, 2012
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Aug 23, 2012
hendrixx2 left a comment for Pat222
"hi Pat, Yes, well we can be friends...if you insist......lol, thanx..."
Aug 22, 2012

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Did you feel the energy of your spouse start to leave after the first couple of weeks?

Posted on July 9, 2012 at 5:49pm 1 Comment

I don't know if anyone else has experienced the loss of your spouse's presence as the first couple of weeks slipped away??? I don't know whether it is because this is my second time through becoming a widow, but with this passing, I could tell a difference and a definite decline in the residual energy left by my husband in our bedroom especially, and in the house in general. My husband had a massive heart attack in our bedroom and was taken to the hospital never regaining a pulse. I don't know… Continue

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At 9:13pm on September 18, 2012, srm541 said…

HI Pat,

I read you post and wanted you to know that felt your spirit, and added you as a friend.. that chatting tonight

Sharon

At 8:12pm on August 22, 2012, hendrixx2 said…

hi Pat,

Yes, well we can be friends...if you insist......lol, thanx...

At 10:03am on July 17, 2012,
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Welcome to our community.... I hope we can keep you company on your journey ahead. Please look around a bit and read this basic introduction to the site. You can find more information about how the community works under "Help!" in the navigation bar, and we'll send you a few newsletters with tips and ideas in the coming weeks. If you need a little more help, go to the Home page and look in the right hand column to see the link to a "Help Desk" form.
We all use the site differently, but we hope you feel comfortable sharing among us in the coming days, weeks, and months.
Big hug!
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At 9:20pm on July 10, 2012, Karen said…

Yes, I would love to chat with you.  I'll send you a private  message with my new, unlisted phone number.  Or if you want to send me yours, I'll call you.  Just tell me when.  Karen

At 8:34pm on July 3, 2012, Joyce said…

Welcome Pat:  I'm sorry for your recent loss but I'm glad you found your way to this site. I know you will find the same comfort and understanding here at Widowed Village that I have. In the beginning I just read the blogs and posts and lurked in chat. Post and join us in chat when you feel comfortable. It is nice to be among people who "Get It"

 
 
 

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