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Pat in Ct
  • Female
  • Norwalk, CT
  • United States
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Pat in Ct replied to Jules's discussion 5 weeks and counting i in the group Widowed in 2019
"Look for signs from your partner. They are there if you are open to seeing them: flashing lights that shouldn't be flashing, a feather lying somewhere odd, dimes on the ground, cardinals, birds that won't leave you alone, butterflies that…"
Jan 13
Pat in Ct commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Thanks Pete. Same to you."
Dec 15, 2019
Pat in Ct commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Denise, Thank you for the recommendation."
Dec 15, 2019
Pat in Ct commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Pete, I'm in the first year, too. It's awful, just terrible. My husband died in May and I still can't believe he's not coming back. I miss him so much. I'm sorry we're all going through this."
Dec 15, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to DebiT's discussion So many places to say goodbye in the group Widowed in 2019
"I'm so sorry. You are probably still in shock and disbelief, so give yourself time, lots of it, before expecting to somewhat move on. I've been told there's no timeline for grief."
Nov 27, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to DebiT's discussion So many places to say goodbye in the group Widowed in 2019
"Lisa, I know how you feel. It's been 6 months for me, and I can't emerge from the fog and confusion and depression."
Nov 26, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"This is a beautiful tradition. God bless you."
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"Steve, you need to talk to your wife, even though she's not here physically. Voicing your concerns and guilt could relieve you a little. Have you tried therapy? I, too, have regrets about how I took my husband for granted. I loved him but…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"Alma, I'm glad you're feeling better. I was married 28 years so I'm in the same boat you are. The mourning process won't be short or easy for either of us, but it's encouraging that the grief does become sporadic instead of…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"Alma, I feel exactly this way now. The sadness is crushing me. I even cry in my dreams. I can't get out of bed because of the anxiety in my body. I have to work all night long, past dawn, to make up the work I didn't do during the…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"I feel exactly this way now. The sadness is crushing me. I even cry in my dreams. I can't get out of bed because of the anxiety in my body. I have to work all night long, past dawn, to make up the work I didn't do during the day. I'm…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"I feel exactly this way now. The sadness is crushing me. I even cry in my dreams. I can't get out of bed because of the anxiety in my body. I have to work all night long, past dawn, to make up the work I didn't do during the day. I'm…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Alma's discussion Sometimes the anxiety
"I feel exactly this way now. The sadness is crushing me. I even cry in my dreams. I can't get out of bed because of the anxiety in my body. I have to work all night long, past dawn, to make up the work I didn't do during the day. I'm…"
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to DebiT's discussion So many places to say goodbye in the group Widowed in 2019
"Pray for stronger faith. It works."
Nov 24, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Riley's discussion I Challenge You! in the group Born in the 60s
"I pray that things have improved for you since you wrote this 14 months ago."
Nov 23, 2019
Pat in Ct replied to Jules's discussion 5 weeks and counting i in the group Widowed in 2019
"It's been six months since my husband died unexpectedly. That will seem like a long time to those of you who just lost your partner, but it feels like yesterday. The real pain didn't start until the shock wore off, about 3 months after his…"
Nov 23, 2019

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At 11:35am on September 5, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Pat in Ct. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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