Please don't think me cruel for what you're about to read. It has been six months since my husband died and about two weeks ago my libido surged! I'm in my late 50's. First off, has anybody else had…Continue
My husband of 32 years passed January 10, 2018 of pancreatic cancer. Approaching 8 months out I feel in a better place but still am plagued with indecision. Sell the house, buy a condo, stay in the house, by a duplex, stay in the…"
"Appliances are sold to relieve sexual urges ...
As for "is it okay to have sex during the first year?" It depends on how its accomplished combined w/your morals, values & ethics. Simply said, no one needs permission to betray or change…"
"Yes- I am studying for a Lay Preaching License in the Episcopal Church and I agree with you that even in liberal circles most people would not approve of a still-legally-married priest in a relationship with another woman.
To get back a little…"
"laurajay, I'm not looking for a cabana boy! (I'm sure you were joking about that one.) As I said, I have pretty exacting standards if I were to get into another physical relationship and I want it to be with someone mature who…"
"IamTheStorm, I am so extremely impressed that you talked about masturbation. Really, Really, Really. I brought up the subject of sex in one grief group (only women) and the response was silence. I brought it up to another…"
"Patty, thank you for starting this subject. That is so normal! And if it isn't,, there's at least two of us. (said jokingly since we all know there's no right or wrong way to grieve) My sweetie and I didn't have sex for the last…"
"Not just a man's answer. I saw my dear husband, who used to hike parts of the Appalachian trail and go on multi-night hikes in freezing temps, waste away to 117 lbs. even though he was over 6 feet tall and become so weak he was at risk of…"
"I think for myself, and I certainly cannot speak for anyone else, ( I actually have little interest in the subject matter) I would evaluate at that time my situation and if I were emotionally stable enough to enter into a relationship. If it…"
"laurajay, you posted something close to what I was thinking. (I've been with the granddaughters all weekend so every time I turn on a device I have little "helpers".)
First, I agree- we don't look like we did at 20. at our…"
Welcome to Widville, Patty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.
Join theGroupsthat fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out theForum DiscussionsandChat Roomfor conversations on all sorts of topics. Share your story. You'll find the latest news on the HOME page.