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Patty
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  • Houston, TX
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hormones

Started this discussion. Last reply by shelley 1 hour ago. 13 Replies

Please don't think me cruel for what you're about to read. It has been six months since my husband died and about two weeks ago my libido surged! I'm in my late 50's. First off, has anybody else had…Continue

 

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shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Oh, laurajay,  Thank you so much for your post.  I've had a very hard couple of days.  Sobbing that I can't seem to stop.  Your post was lighthearted and made me smile.  Yes, I agree with you completely.  "
1 hour ago
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I enjoy reading these posts.  My husband and I had a very active and satisfying sex life and I miss it alot.  I've been in several grief groups and the topic of sex has only been brought up once-  I think it should be talked…"
6 hours ago
Patty replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Yes, after reading all the comments I understand what to do. You’re all right. Waiting is the best medicine. I appreciate your comments!"
Thursday
Callie2 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Patty, I don’t know what would be right for you, but do you know? Sometimes it is the intimacy that we miss more than the hormones. Grieving can be a confusing time, our emotions are all over the place!  My suggestion is to wait a while…"
Thursday
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I agree with laurajay- it depends. I'm 65 and was a gleeful participant in the sexual revolution.  I have many experiences of "just for fun" sex but I'm past that now.  Even though my body is in great shape, I have a…"
Wednesday
Patty replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I have no control over what my body tells me. Maybe it’s primal instinct telling me to mate but I’m well past child baring. It’s throwing me for a loop. Thanks for your thoughts and I’m sorry for your loss."
Wednesday
Patty replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Amen and thank you!"
Wednesday
Patty replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Dear Yooper. Thank your u for you words. I kind of feel that way too. You must be from the U.P. ,hey!"
Wednesday
KayeL replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I lost my husband 2.5 years ago. I was almost 36 when he died and now I am barely 38. He and I met in college and were very much in love the 15 years of our courtship. When he died, he took away everything- happiness, hopes, innocence, love and the…"
Wednesday
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hormones

Please don't think me cruel for what you're about to read. It has been six months since my husband died and about two weeks ago my libido surged! I'm in my late 50's. First off, has anybody else had this? Is it okay to have sex during the first year or am I asking for trouble mentally? See More
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Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Patty
"Welcome to Widville, Patty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions and…"
May 29

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At 5:02pm on May 29, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Patty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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