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Patty
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  • Houston, TX
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Started this discussion. Last reply by SweetMelissa2007 Jun 21. 34 Replies

Please don't think me cruel for what you're about to read. It has been six months since my husband died and about two weeks ago my libido surged! I'm in my late 50's. First off, has anybody else had…Continue

 

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SweetMelissa2007 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Appliances are sold to relieve sexual urges ... As for "is it okay to have sex during the first year?" It depends on how its accomplished combined w/your morals, values & ethics. Simply said, no one needs permission to betray or change…"
Jun 21
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Yes- I am studying for a Lay Preaching License in the Episcopal Church and I agree with you that even in liberal circles most people would not approve of a still-legally-married priest in a relationship with another woman. To get back a little…"
Jun 20
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I also appreciate IamTheStorm's honesty.  It's really sad that our society prefers that people who don't look like porn stars not talk about their sexual urges."
Jun 20
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"laurajay, I'm not looking for a cabana boy!  (I'm sure you were joking about that one.)  As I said, I have pretty exacting standards if I were to get into another physical relationship and I want it to be with someone mature who…"
Jun 20
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I honor your privacy, laurajay.  I am someone who benefits from sharing it all.  "
Jun 19
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"IamTheStorm, I am so extremely impressed that you talked about masturbation.  Really,  Really, Really.  I brought up the subject of sex in one grief group (only women) and the response was silence.  I brought it up to another…"
Jun 19
IamTheStorm replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Patty, thank you for starting this subject. That is so normal! And if it isn't,, there's at least two of us. (said jokingly since we all know there's no right or wrong way to grieve) My sweetie and I didn't have sex for the last…"
Jun 19
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Thank you, Athena53.  I enjoyed your post.  "
Jun 18
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Not just a man's answer.  I saw my dear husband, who used to hike parts of the Appalachian trail and go on multi-night hikes in freezing temps, waste away to 117 lbs. even though he was over 6 feet tall and become so weak he was at risk of…"
Jun 18
Allan_sch replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Thanks "
Jun 18
Allan_sch replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"This is all so new to me. I was married for the last 30 years. now I am 62 without my life partner:("
Jun 18
Allan_sch replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Your absolutely correct it was wrong for me to reply like that. Sorry"
Jun 18
Allan_sch replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I would think so. You need to feel alive "
Jun 18
Callie2 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"I think for myself, and I certainly cannot speak for anyone else, ( I actually have little interest in the subject matter)  I would evaluate at that time my situation and if I were emotionally stable enough to enter into a relationship. If it…"
Jun 18
Athena53 replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"laurajay, you posted something close to what I was thinking.  (I've been with the granddaughters all weekend so every time I turn on a device I have little "helpers".) First, I agree- we don't look like we did at 20. at our…"
Jun 18
shelley replied to Patty's discussion hormones
"Oh, laurajay,  Thank you so much for your post.  I've had a very hard couple of days.  Sobbing that I can't seem to stop.  Your post was lighthearted and made me smile.  Yes, I agree with you completely.  "
Jun 17

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At 5:02pm on May 29, 2018, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Patty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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