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Peacefrog
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  • Clearwater, FL
  • United States
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KJPE replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I know that sound will haunt you; I can say that even after only 2.5 months, those last days and hours with him while he was comatose do not haunt me as much as they did right afterward.  "
Jan 3
KJPE replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I am so so so sorry you had to go through this.  I have wondered 1000 times if there might have been some way I could have saved my husband's life, as he had a heart block, was able to call 911 (why wasn't I there to do that???) and…"
Jan 3
sis replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"My heart feels your hurt. I am haunted with those noises, which I thought were him snoring. I lost my husband March 18, 2018 from cerebral aneurysm which caused a hemorrhagic  stroke. We went to bed the night before and when I woke it sounded…"
Dec 20, 2018
Melissa replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you, Rainy. My heart breaks for us all. Take care, and I wish you comfort and peace."
Dec 8, 2018
Rainy (Misty) replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"(((Melissa))) I can see where in your mind the dod would be the day you found him.  My heart broke reading your story.  "
Dec 8, 2018
jlsrdh replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Peacefrog, In the grief books I’ve read some people cry others don’t. They are both ok. In 07 my husbands cousin died. His wife never cried and was able to speak at his funeral. So, now 11 years later when we talked after Tom died she…"
Nov 18, 2018
Peacefrog replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
" This website is very confusing there's  forums  groups blogs  but whatever I seem to land I don't find anything recent it's mostly stuff from years ago I'd like to connect with people and topics that are…"
Nov 18, 2018
Peacefrog replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
" I'm currently reading that book right now. I just feel guilty that I can't grieve properly I can't even cry and then I worry that it's going to hit me like a ton bricks when I least expect it down the road "
Nov 18, 2018
Peacefrog replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"I'm actually reading her book right now"
Nov 18, 2018
Peacefrog replied to Rainy (Misty)'s discussion Does anyone actively journal?
" I just recently last weekend started journaling via a journey app that I found on my iPhone.   I wanted to give it a try as well since I've heard good things about it but I didn't think I would be willing to pick up pen and…"
Nov 18, 2018
Melissa replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Peacefrog, my heart goes out to you. I'm so terribly sorry you have to be here.  It's all so surreal to be having a normal day, and in a second your whole life will never be the same. For me, it was a Tuesday afternoon. My husband and…"
Nov 18, 2018
Rainy (Misty) replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"((Peacefrog)) I'm so sorry.  My experience is very similar to yours as well.   It took about 5 months before I felt human again.  "
Nov 18, 2018
littleblue replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Peacefrog I am so, so sorry.  My husband went into a coma suddenly in 2013 and died a week later.  I was definitely in shock, and it took me about 6 months to come out of it.  I just lost my dad very suddenly on Saturday night (he had…"
Nov 18, 2018
Frank replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Peacefrog, I am so sorry that you have joined our "Club."  but here is the place you should be.  Six years ago, I lost my wife the love of my life, my best friend, and lover of 35 years one Sunday night. She went to sleep…"
Nov 17, 2018
jlsrdh replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Peacefrog, I also understand your pain. My husband also suffered a heart attack on 8/20/18 while I was gone for 30 minutes. I found him on the floor. So I also had police here along with all the other people, fire, paramedics. I don’t think…"
Nov 17, 2018
silverlady replied to Peacefrog's discussion Went to bed and didn't wake up in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Peacefrog, My heart goes out to you. My story is very, very similar to yours except it happened in March of 2014. You are indeed in a state of shock. If you are anything like me, you will only realize how much shock you are in many months from…"
Nov 17, 2018

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At 4:33pm on November 16, 2018, Patience said…

Welcome to Widville, Peacefrog. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.
Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Click the "help" link at the top of the page. You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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