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Pinaywidow
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cjh0588 commented on Pinaywidow's blog post No words can explain, the way Im missing you..
"I haven't heard this song but the lyrics are heartfelt."
Mar 17, 2015
Kevin's wife liked Pinaywidow's blog post No words can explain, the way Im missing you..
Mar 11, 2015
Kevin's wife commented on Pinaywidow's blog post Why?
"And I'm with you on ALL the whys..."
Mar 11, 2015
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Mar 9, 2015
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Mar 9, 2015
Pinaywidow commented on Pinaywidow's blog post Midnight tears
"Thank you Callie2. I appreaciate your advice. Its so difficult dealing this loneliness. Yes, i would like to try attending grief group. Ive been ignoring this because i wasnt ready to talk to other people. I know i will just cry. Its been six months…"
Mar 2, 2015
Callie2 commented on Pinaywidow's blog post Midnight tears
"Pinawidow, Grieving is so very hard and even with support, we need to feel these feelings in order for us to heal. I feel your pain, my dear, as I remember each and every step of the way. I am now six years out. I can tell you that in time, it…"
Feb 23, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to JK (OK)'s discussion What song or line(s) from a song relate to how you feel? And how/why?
"This is the first time i heard this song and i like it so much..thanks for sharing..its beutiful.."
Feb 22, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to JK (OK)'s discussion What song or line(s) from a song relate to how you feel? And how/why?
"This is our wedding theme song..its been 6 months since he passed..i miss him so bad :-( ..it hurts..its painful..hearing this song my tears keep flowing.. MOMENTS OF LOVE  by janno gibbs and jenalyn mercado Moments of love  Close beside…"
Feb 19, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"Michigan"
Feb 19, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Dreams and signs. Does your loved one appear to you in dreams?
"I dreamed of my husband twice this year and Im very happy. In my prayers, i told my husband to visit me in my dream, to communicate with me because i miss him so much. First, we were riding in a carriage. Second, he was laying in hospital bed. I…"
Feb 19, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you Juls, i definitely check the facebook page. I need spiritual enlightenment. When I lost my husband, I lost interest going to the Church. My husband was an Usher and when I tried to go back and attend the mass. I just cried and cried. Im…"
Feb 17, 2015
Pinaywidow replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hello everyone, My name is Scarlett. My husband passed away last year August 18, 2014. Weve been married for 6 years. He passed 2 months before our 7th anniv. We have 3 beautiful children. Im glad I found this group. Im so happy I have something to…"
Feb 17, 2015
Pinaywidow commented on eliana's event 2015 Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness
"il do 8 RAOKs..deadline October 21..love it!"
Feb 17, 2015
Pinaywidow is attending eliana's event

2015 Wedding Anniversary Random Acts of Kindness at everywhere

January 1, 2015 to December 31, 2015
8I invite you to mark your wedding anniversary -- or any other special anniversary with your beloved -- by performing a Random Act of Kindness for each year.This year-long event was inspired by Taryn Davis, and you can read her blog chronicling her day in the link above. This February, I will perform 27 RAOKs on our 27th wedding anniversary.If you are inspired to participate, please RSVP here with the number of…See More
Feb 17, 2015
Pinaywidow commented on Soaring Spirits's group Military Families
"Hello everyone, my husband served in marine corps. Im proud of him and i will see him next month, if weathers permit, on his bday at the vet cemetery."
Feb 17, 2015

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Why?

Posted on March 9, 2015 at 8:37pm 1 Comment

Im mad..Im upset..Im angry..

Why life is so short?

Why theres no forever?

Why do we need to stop breathing?

Why do we become sick?

Why theres no cure?

Why we cant stop from crying?

Why the tears wont stop from dropping?

Why we need to be alone?

Why not staying?

Why happiness never last?

Why do we have to feel the pain?

Why do we need to say goodbye?

Why theres death?

Why God not…

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He said "I Love You" while on ventilator

Posted on February 22, 2015 at 9:30pm 0 Comments

I remembered the day he said "I love you" while the ventilator is in his mouth. I saw his tears flowing down his cheeks. I told him "Honey, look at me!".."I love you more"...I asked him "Are you gonna leave me?" I told him "dont go yet", "Don't leave me please." "The kids are still young and I dont know how to tell them." "I don't know how to explain to them, please dont leave me Honey!  I dont know what to do!" "Look at me Honey, I love you so much. I really do. Please dont leave me!"…

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Midnight tears

Posted on February 22, 2015 at 8:48pm 2 Comments

Its midnight. Its quiet. Im in my laptop listening to sad music. Every music I heard, it reminds me of my late husband and posted it in my facebook page. I dont know why. Maybe I just want attention from my friends, but no one giving me attention. Im lonely..very lonely. My kids are sleeping. Im here in my living room alone crying for hours with my husband picture in my hands. Im sad, very sad. I have tears. It keeps flowing nonstop. I miss him so much. I really do. I wish he can come back.…

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At 8:33am on February 15, 2015, rodsgurl09 said…

Welcome to Widville. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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