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Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Joellen
Love your wisdom....God Bless!"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Hello everyone
My anger does not come anymore as I heard the same thing...he would of stayed if he could. I am just lonely all the time. I get waves of longing him to just hold me. Not sure where our journey will lead each one of....I do keep all on…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Barbie115
I am glad you found us and sorry you are on the journey. You are so new into this and I pray for you that you will just take baby steps, peace and strength to you when the going gets rough.
Poppy's girl"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Unsure....no judgement here, we are all in the same boat.
My husband passed away in September 2010, no warning at all, We both were 55 years old when he had a heart attack. We had planned to grow old together but things do not always work out…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Feeling lonely....I hear you and feel your pain. This September 19th will be three years for me also. When I think about my future I think Yikes! I am so sorry no one acknowledged your anniversary. Thinking maybe they did not want to bring you…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Widowed in 2010
"Hi Everyone,
Did not know this site had a widowed in 2010. Reading some of the posts and agree....most people think we have moved on, happy and adjusted! Oh if they only knew. My days are long and my nights are lonely.
I have seemed to have lost the…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Thanks you for link to book...when I can I am going to try and buy it.
Everyone...God's blessings to you all.
Poppy's girl"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Never heard of God Winks....would love to hear more."
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Hello Jocelyn
Had to respond when I read the part of acknowledging signs or what I call nuggets from heaven. My husband use to bring me flowers all the time....at work and home, it did not have to be a special occasion.
He had requested many years…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Puddy,
Pray you find your peace and joy again. It is so hard. I too left the home I had with my husband, (36 years there) and felt exactly what you are feeling now....wanting to stay yet wanting to run. I moved also into a maintenance free place as…"
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Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Hello
Just thinking about all of us, Pray you will have peace and strength. We all hurt and still have to face each day, changes and life continues for each of us. Keeping you in prayer.
Poppy's girl"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Blessings to you Drewlady! I admire your strength and one day hope to be like this. You have made me smile.
Poppy's girl
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Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Just wanted to say hello and good morning to all of you. Wishing each one of you strength and hope. Knowing my husband he would not want me to continue on as I have been. This September will be three years since Chuck has been gone. Somehow, someway…"
Poppys Girl commented on Supa Dupa Fresh's group Born in the 50s
"Juls
So sorry for what you are feeling, wishing you strength each day. Seems there is so much conflicted emotions in this journey. Wanting to run, wanting to stay, most of all wanting to be what it use to be.
God Bless
Poppy's girl"
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Missing you Still
Posted on July 1, 2012 at 12:31am 5 Comments 0 Likes
My heart died the day yours stopped beating.
Sitting here alone trying to figure out my life
They call me widow, I call me your wife.
I will never understand why
I am still living and you had to die.
I put on a face for everyone to see
they think I'm okay, only I know that could never be
me here without you...you there without me.
I promise to try, give it all I got
Life is lonely, don't know if people can see
I'm broken…
AGONY OF GRIEF
Posted on April 16, 2012 at 11:15pm 7 Comments 5 Likes
Grief
Picks you up and slams you down, knocking everything loose.
Shattering everything that was sold, secure and good
Never to be the same again.…
Continue I am and I know
Posted on November 1, 2011 at 1:52am 5 Comments 2 Likes
I am better now then my previous post. My family chased away my blues.
My daughter came and cooked for us. I walked with my grandchildren from house to house trick or treating. The night was clear and beautiful I could hear laughter and felt God's peace touch me.
I am a widow.
I am grieving.
I am going to get through this.
I know this is the hardest thing I have ever gone through
I know God's with me.
I know one day we will be united in…
Continue Here I go again
Posted on October 31, 2011 at 6:22pm 1 Comment 0 Likes
Tears on my face but I cannot, will not try to stop them. Knowing I will never hold you again or feel your breath close to me just hurts so bad. Like a silent movie, memories run through my mind. I can't find the off button.
I try to stop wondering why I am still here and you had to die.
Just missing you.
Poppy's Girl
Comment Wall (6 comments)
- At 8:15pm on April 20, 2013,
onmyown said… Thank you!! :)
- At 5:31pm on April 20, 2013, onmyown said…
So sorry you are having a bad day. Know you are never alone with all of us here. Wishing you peace and softer days.
Jen
- At 9:26pm on November 3, 2011,
carolynne said… - Thank you for your friend request.
- At 2:07am on October 15, 2011,
Lisa (lost) Lamb said…
Poppys Girl thank you so much for the kind words. This is so hard and a day to day struggle. I'm so glad you have your boys to lean on when you need or to just be with. Both my boys are so far away and the phone just isn't the same. My world is very lonely also with just me and the dogs alot of tears fall when I'm at home now. I still would rather be here then out in the world that seems to have already forgotten him. I know life has to go on...I just don't like being apart of it.
- At 11:12pm on October 13, 2011, carolynne said…
- Poppys Girl, I'm so sorry for the loss that brings you here, but glad you've found us. I hope you'll find the same support and understanding that I have. The groups are especially helpful, because you'll talk to people in situations similar to yours. I hope to see you in chat sometime.
- At 10:45pm on October 13, 2011,
Dianne in Nevada said… 
I'm pleased you found us, Poppys Girl. Take a look around and join in our conversations - in the Groups, Forums and Chat Room. You'll find wonderful support here.
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