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Preblehiker replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi GTG. It doesn't seem to make any sense when the love of your life departs at a young age. My wife was 51 when she passed in July of 2014. She had retired at 48 and when I asked her what she wanted to do next, her reply was, "All I want…"
Jan 30, 2018
Thankfulheart commented on Preblehiker's blog post Remember Your Story
"That is so cool! I feel that my husband guides me as well. I'm grateful. He was a great! Man but before he died he told me I had his blessing to start a new chapter. He told me to live life, be happy and forgive. I am thankful for the time we…"
Jan 29, 2018

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I've been on a spiritual journey of discovery for many years with my soul mate wife who left her body on 07/15/14. She passed away six weeks after being diagnosed with brain cancer. There are remarkable stories surrounding her death. Her passing has greatly enhanced my sensitivities in many ways.

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Remember Your Story

Posted on February 16, 2016 at 1:55pm 3 Comments

I met my wife Laura when she was a 17 year old farm girl from Upstate New York. Her life evolved from milking cows to working for a Silicon Valley tech company. Over the years she grew in beauty, maturity, sophistication and worldliness. She evolved in her spiritual maturity to understand more of who she really was.

Seventeen years after initially meeting her, we got married. Our lives together were full of adventure, self discovery, spiritual growth, family, work and travel.…


Forever 51

Posted on December 27, 2015 at 12:03pm 5 Comments

After Laura passed on 7/15/14, I now had to do everything myself. There was no one preparing a meal while I was outdoors working. There was no one to talk to at mealtime anymore. All of a sudden I felt vulnerable. If we had a problem to solve, we would put our heads together to figure out a solution. Two heads are always better than one. Now it's just me, to figure it all out by myself.

I hiked alone on our familiar trails in quiet contemplation and meditation. I stood by the wood…


I Know You By Heart

Posted on December 27, 2015 at 11:10am 3 Comments

I Know You By Heart - Eva Cassidy

It Was Like A Dream

Posted on December 23, 2015 at 7:42am 3 Comments

On December 2, 2015, I woke up from a vivid dream regarding my wife who passed away from brain cancer on July 15, 2014, just six weeks after diagnosis. I wrote this immediately upon awakening on the morning of December 2.

It Was Like A Dream

I used to date Laura Maybury

We had great times together

We shared our love and intimacy

I loved her dearly, yes I did

I don't know what happened

Did I say something to offend…


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At 6:34pm on December 22, 2015, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Preblehiker. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place. Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.


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