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Started this discussion. Last reply by MrsHill2015 Jan 13. 6 Replies

Does anyone get tired of hearing the I am so sorry's? I remember thinking the first time people knew I was a widow and if they DIDNT say sorry for your loss I got upset and judgy. Now I am so tired…Continue

 

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MrsHill2015 replied to Queen_beez's discussion Condolences
"Love IS always the answer!  Your words are so true. I constantly ask why him, the best father and husband, just trying to do whats right. And there are seemingly hateful, evil people out here living until they are 100. I don't get…"
Jan 13
MrsHill2015 replied to Queen_beez's discussion Condolences
"Wow. This is beautifully, honestly, and kindly written. I'm only 6 months out, I have major meltdowns and lapses in judgement and horrible moments and deep depression and irrational thoughts and fatigue and forgetfulness and on and on and…"
Jan 10
Maggiepie replied to Queen_beez's discussion Condolences
"Yes, Queen beez, I am sick of hearing the typical - I'm sorry - He's in a better place - God needed him more - It'll take time - He would want you to be happy - Be strong. Strong? Really? I think people want to say the right things…"
Jan 8
Melissa replied to Queen_beez's discussion Condolences
"I was tired of it less than 24 hours in. What the heck am I supposed to say back? "Um, me too?" "Thank you?" It's sort of a weird thing to say, when you think about it. I most appreciated my sister-in-law, also a widow,…"
Jan 5
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Condolences

Does anyone get tired of hearing the I am so sorry's? I remember thinking the first time people knew I was a widow and if they DIDNT say sorry for your loss I got upset and judgy. Now I am so tired of hearing it. So on here, if you see this and decide to respond to me don't bother with the sorrys. I KNOW how sorry you are and I don't want you to waste your precious energy on saying it to me ever. Please don't judge me if I skip the I am sorrys as well. My heart is in it but my words are hard to…See More
Jan 4
Queen_beez replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Thank you. It's pretty hard to write how one feels. It's still so jumbled. I appreciate the kind words. I feel horrible for.MY loss and so much worse because I was not "woke" as the kids say, lol, prior to losing my love. I did…"
Jan 4
Queen_beez replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Hi, my name is Susan. I became a widow 9n August 11, 2017 at 4:23 PM. My husband of 33 years died at work of a massive heart attack. The widow maker. He was 6'2" tall and weighed 180 pounds. He had played baseball his whole life and man…"
Jan 3
Queen_beez replied to Dee1960's discussion Happy (bah hum bug) Holidays!
"As I sit here sobbing I simply have no words. No good wards anyway. All I can say is my heart aches for you and for all of us dealing with such horrific loss. I became a widow at 53 so I understand those feelings you are having. It's so…"
Jan 3
eliana left a comment for Queen_beez
"Welcome to Widville, Queen_beez. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that…"
Jan 3

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At 9:28pm on January 3, 2020, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Queen_beez. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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