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Raven2017
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  • Tampa, FL
  • United States
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Raven2017 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"So everyone on those dating sites is a Super Model?  I didn't know that.  I guess I was lucky.  Myself and Stephen were hardly "physically fit."  My point in sharing my husband's friend's experience is…"
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Raven2017 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Wasn't giving marching orders to anyone.   I was only giving my experience.  I know of several other positive ones.  In fact, one of my husband's best friends, Hal, went through a nasty divorce and was ready to start dating.…"
Tuesday
Alone replied to Raven2017's discussion "I know what you are going through" UGH! in the group Widowed in 2017
"I feel just the same Raven2017. People who have not lost their spouse just do not get it which i suppose is understandable but when they pretend to it's so annoying and hurtful. I'm tired of people and their thoughtless comments. I'm…"
Tuesday
HelensRay replied to Raven2017's discussion "I know what you are going through" UGH! in the group Widowed in 2017
"I do have friends who ask, or did ask  "how are you" and when I tell them it does all go a bit quiet.  I am finding that more are now starting to ask "what sort of day have you had".  But no nobody can know how…"
Tuesday
Malgosia replied to Raven2017's discussion "I know what you are going through" UGH! in the group Widowed in 2017
"But what shall we say? Exactly what we want to say (scream)? Or be polite, say thank you for condolences, for trying? The other words people say are: " I have never lost a husband but I lost (fill in the blank) so I can relate/imagine". No…"
Tuesday
Raven2017 added a discussion to the group Widowed in 2017
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"I know what you are going through" UGH!

If I hear one more person say "I lost my (mother/father/sister/brother/....), I know exactly what you are going through,"  I think I will scream!  NO!  NO!  You do NOT know exactly what I am going through.  I've lost grandparents, mother, brother, aunts, uncles, cousins.   It is NOTHING like losing you spouse, your soulmate.  The person who you chose and who chose you to be their partner.  The pain is unbearable most of the time.  My future hopes and dreams growing old with my soulmate are…See More
Tuesday
Raven2017 replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"I am newly widowed so I am not even entertaining the thought of dating yet, but I saw your statement about online dating and had to post.  I found my soulmate on Match.com.   Don't knock online dating sites.  You can find someone…"
Tuesday
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Raven2017 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Widowed on 7/15/17.  Just looking for some support.  My husband was my soulmate.  It took me 46 years to find my soulmate and we quickly realized we were perfect for each other and married around a year later.  We had our wedding…"
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