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Hello my name is Richelle and I live in Western Australia.  I have twin 13 year old boys and I was widowed suddenly on 29 April 2010.

So now we are trying to find the new family norm....this is a wonderful site and although it is through unhappy circumstances I am glad to be a part of it.

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At 8:57pm on August 16, 2012, Dianne in Nevada said…

Hope you had a really special day.

Happy Birthday, Richelle.

At 9:22pm on May 9, 2012, Janine (txmomx6) said…

Hi Richelle! Thanks for your comments about my post.  I'm always glad to meet new people, even though the reason we're meeting is horrible.  But it's nice to see so many good things happen out of something so horrible.

Hugs to you from Texas!

At 7:45pm on May 7, 2012, kimkirt (KK) said…
Thank you for friending me! Hugs!
At 1:51pm on September 13, 2011, Eileen said…

Hi Richelle,

 

I just got your message on my page.  The books are called "Getting to Calm" by Kastner and Wyatt and "How to Hug a Porcupine" by Julie Ross.  It is a "difficult" age and throw in grief for all of us, and it can be harder.  These books helped me to calm down and understand all the changes that occur at this age.  And good ways to deal with less than ideal behavior.  Please feel free to private message me!  And many blessings to you with this huge loss of ours.

At 12:20pm on September 5, 2011, loveliveson said…
Hi Richelle, thank you so much for your comments on my blog post!  Yes, the counseling thing.. one minute it seems like it would be a good idea, assuming your son would actually go (my middle son did), but then they seem to be doing better and it you don't want to feel like you're reinforcing loss by still seeking it out..  I went through that whole thought process re:  grief camp for my 7 year old.  At the time I started considering it, he was receptive.  A few months later at registration time, he wasn't in that frame of mind anymore.  So we learn, yet again, how to be more flexible :)  I noticed your comment about school forms, and what to put.  This has been such a thing for me.  First I left it blank, but that didn't feel right.  I've settled on "deceased."  For awhile I considered, putting their dad's full name, plus "(deceased)" but then I thought maybe that was too morbid for other people... I don't know.  That last option feels the best, because I feel he deserves to be there somehow.  Looking forward to getting to know you!  Maria
At 9:21am on August 17, 2011, Debbie said…

Happy Birthday Richelle...hope you find some joy in the day with your beautiful boys!

My thoughts are with you today 

At 10:10pm on August 16, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

 

 

Hope your special day is filled with love and peace, Richelle.

 

Dianne

At 5:43am on August 1, 2011, JennyWisconsin said…
hi twins mum - glad you sent the friend request... look forward to chatting
At 5:46pm on July 31, 2011, rodsgurl09 said…
Thanks for friending me, Richelle :) ((hugs))
At 11:50pm on July 27, 2011, Alycia E said…
Got your comment on my blog. Write, girl, write. Get it out. You don't have to be eloquent. Speak your heart. We are listening.

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29 April 2010 - the day my husband was taken from me.

Posted on April 29, 2012 at 11:21pm 3 Comments

Well I made it through 29 April.  And the day went extremely well.  A few texts from friends who remembered, some flowers and some hugs.  Not a tear was shed....today....

Friday.....different story.  I also had a reading from a pyschic/clairvoyant.  Lots of tears but I felt so relaxed afterwards and felt I was doing ok and on the right path.  A phone call from the FIL - which really tore me apart on an emotionally drained day as well.  I cannot believe the things the in-laws are…

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Second best!!!!

Posted on April 12, 2012 at 10:48pm 12 Comments

Most of us lost our partners not by choice unlike a divorce (choice in some circumstances anyway).  We never fell out of love - well at least I didn't.  Yes of course our marriage had its ups and downs and Craig wasn't the be all and end all but he was my Craig and I loved him.

What scares me is that I had it right the first time round.  I am generalising here so may not be right in all circumstances - but in some cases of divorce - you fall out of love.  You didn't get it right the…

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Brother-In-Law's Wedding next week.....

Posted on March 1, 2012 at 4:07am 6 Comments

Well in 10 days time my BIL will be getting married.  Craig should of been the best man to his brother! And an aunt of his arrived yesterday and relatives from NZ will arrive this weekend and then all tother relatives arrive through next week.  I haven't seem most of them since the funeral 22 months ago. 

I am looking forward to the wedding although I also know there will be the 'other' questions and concerns which may taint the whole celebration.  'How are you', "have you met anyone…

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New Person in life/New Dating....Advice Sought

Posted on January 30, 2012 at 4:40pm 4 Comments

Well where do I start. To those who have started dating again or have a new person in there life or are in the next relationship after their partner died. I don't really know where to start or what to ask. I have met someone new who is happy to spend time with us at the moment which is great. I met him on the camping trip we did.

Funny I thought when I did meet someone again it would take awhile for me to introduce him to the kids.  In this scenario he met us all at the same time. …

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