"Hi Jess, I've had someone say that too, and she said it so casually like it was no big deal. It really hurts. I hate it. I'm 2 1/2 years out and there's no way I'm ready or even interested in another man.…"
"Hi Lupe's husband, I gave it a 3 month try. Joined Match. HEre's what I found, men my age, ( I'm 59) seem to want women in their 40's. I got a lot of men in their 70's messaging me. No way! LOL my dad…"
"All the bull sh**...'tis better to have loved and lost...etc...," God never gives you more than you can handle"...REALLY??!!.."For everything there us a reason"...Footprints in the sand??...your favourite...NO!!! "Only…"
"Why did God take you first?? Why?? You always knew I was ( and still am ) nothing without you. My life is a neverending hell..I am "living" with Heather..Our Grandson hates me, Ty still hates me, even Nureyev wants little to do with…"
"Hearing Jeff's voice. Hearing Jeff snore. The smell of Irish Spring soap on his clean body. Jeff's ( formerly annoying) music. Jeff's touch. Jeff's humour (same as mine). Being loved and held. Jeff's Giants and Mets.…"
"Wow great idea and some of mine are similar.
1. The way he said my name.
2. How he tried to ignore me.
3. Holding his hand.
4. Sitting at the beach surf fishing.
5. Hikes in our nearby park.
6. How he danced to Motown.
7. Slim Jims and…"
"1. He'd do the Jerry Lewis walk down the hall when we'd get home from a dinner out all the way to our apartment and then racing to the bathroom when we got in.
2. Singing in the car on a road trip while he turned up a song we…"
"1 - His favorite holiday was Christmas and he put lights everywhere inside and out.
2 - His big hugs
3 - Our spur of the moment trips out of town
4 - His beautiful blue eyes
5 - His sense of humor
6 - Just being with him
7 - Him pulling the sheet…"
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