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CryinCali
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CryinCali commented on CryinCali's blog post No Title
"soraya thank u for your words condolences and concern.  I am very sorry to hear of your loss .  how scary to think u have lost your partner to this horrible pandemic i.m sure it is even harder during this time of isolation as it is. …"
Jun 19
CryinCali commented on CryinCali's blog post No Title
"Thank u linda i appreciate your kind words and your concern and the fact that you are so considerate and understanding of my feelings .... I truely do appreciate the validation of my feelings by u.  Thank u for reaching out and commenting it…"
Jun 19
LandL (Linda) commented on CryinCali's blog post No Title
"Oh, honey, I so understand what you're saying.  I've never understood celebrating the most horrible day of my family's life, the day my husband died suddenly and left our lives without a goodbye.  Others see that day…"
Jun 16
CryinCali replied to Alma's discussion One year mark is quickly approaching
"My husband died on fathersday last year and all i can say is i feel it too.  Maybe even more now than in the early days because at least at that time i was numb and or had the surroundind support of family and friends. Who would come stay with…"
Jun 12
CryinCali posted a blog post

Death anniversary  "UM NO THANX" I DONT WANT TO CELEBRATE A DAY I WISH NEVER HAPPENED.YOU KNOW WHAT DAY I WISH WOULD HAVE BEEN CELEBRATED BUT NO ONE ACKNOWLEDGED MY ANNIVERSARY OR I WISH I COULD HA…

Death anniversary  "UM NO THANX"I DONT WANT TO CELEBRATE A DAY I WISH NEVER HAPPENED.YOU KNOW WHAT DAY I WISH WOULD HAVE BEEN CELEBRATED BUT NO ONE ACKNOWLEDGED MY ANNIVERSARY OR I WISH I COULD HAVE CELEBRATED VALENTINES DAY LIKE WE DID EVERY YEAR MY HUSBAND AND I. HE ALWAYS MADE IT SO SPECIAL.Celebrating the day of the death of a loved one is like celebrating the day you lost a limb, or the ability to see, or the ability to talk.  Who ever wants a reminder of the worse day of their life??  Who…See More
Jun 9
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Apr 25
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Sadly celebrating 11th No-nniversary

    Eleven years yesterday my beloved and i would have celebrated being married for 11 years.!  As i think feeling gutted as i do that i wanted; wait no;  The kids and i needed at least 10 more years forsure at the very very least, but then on the other hand, i think well at least we had those 10years, begrudgingly though, i really wanted at least 50 more... And then i think about the kids and how i have been lucky to have both of my parents still to this day and how i couldnt imagine my whole…See More
Apr 25
CryinCali replied to Judyrose's discussion Lost in the group Widowed in 2019
"Judyrose you know your comment about "some days i think he's coming back" is so strange i thought i was truely the only one feeling that sense of brush it off dont worry this isnt real this cant be true i.ll wake up any minute now or…"
Jan 28
CryinCali replied to Judyrose's discussion Lost in the group Widowed in 2019
"Judyrose you know your comment about "some days i think he's coming back" is so strange i thought i was truely the only one feeling that sense of brush it off dont worry this isnt real this cant be true i.ll wake up any minute now or…"
Jan 28
CryinCali replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"Yes i too wish very much for my hubby to send me a sign any thing and feel sad when i feel i.m only left with memories instead of a validation of our loce i try not too get too down about it but i do wish and hope often for one."
Jan 22
CryinCali commented on CryinCali's blog post Unhappy new year
"Thank u callie2 I hope your right and my husband always worked so hard and supported our family no matter what so I will try my hardest to make him proud.  Its just so hard without him he was so involved with the kids and helping me with…"
Jan 14
Callie2 commented on CryinCali's blog post Unhappy new year
"Cryin, so sorry for your loss and for the situation you are facing at this time.  You’re going to get through this and as hard as it is, you will figure things out.  When someone dies unexpectedly, it’s just so hard to accept.…"
Jan 12
CryinCali replied to Maggiepie's discussion Talking to hubby in my head or aloud
"You know how people say what would jesus do? Well in my house we say what would dad do or sometimes i ask myself what would ricardo do?  I have a 10 years old son ricky his dad was his best friend and you know losing not only your dad but at…"
Jan 11
Dee1960 commented on CryinCali's blog post Unhappy new year
"Cali, wish I knew what to say to help you, but all I can say is I relate, my husband of 21 years was murdered, he didn't die right away, but died from his brain damage/injuries later -- two weeks after he died, our cat died. 3 months later our…"
Jan 10
CryinCali replied to Melissa's discussion Dreams
"I too had many different dreams of my husband and i breaking up or him leaving different ways different situations and its weird cause my husband and i had a very good relationship always willing to stick things out we never would have just chosen…"
Jan 8
CryinCali commented on CryinCali's blog post Unhappy new year
"Thank you don no need to apologize but i thank you for your words. I am sorry they had to see that also but in a way it helped with with them knowing the absolutness finality of what death means that daddy will never be coming back. Which even as an…"
Jan 7

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Death anniversary  "UM NO THANX" I DONT WANT TO CELEBRATE A DAY I WISH NEVER HAPPENED.YOU KNOW WHAT DAY I WISH WOULD HAVE BEEN CELEBRATED BUT NO ONE ACKNOWLEDGED MY ANNIVERSARY OR I WISH I COULD HA…

Posted on June 9, 2020 at 4:57pm 4 Comments

Death anniversary  "UM NO THANX"

I DONT WANT TO CELEBRATE A DAY I WISH NEVER HAPPENED.YOU KNOW WHAT DAY I WISH WOULD HAVE BEEN CELEBRATED BUT NO ONE ACKNOWLEDGED MY ANNIVERSARY OR I WISH I COULD HAVE CELEBRATED VALENTINES DAY LIKE WE DID EVERY YEAR MY HUSBAND AND I. HE ALWAYS MADE IT SO SPECIAL.

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Sadly celebrating 11th No-nniversary

Posted on April 25, 2020 at 8:16pm 0 Comments

    Eleven years yesterday my beloved and i would have celebrated being married for 11 years.!  As i think feeling gutted as i do that i wanted; wait no;  The kids and i needed at least 10 more years forsure at the very very least, but then on the other hand, i think well at least we had those 10years, begrudgingly though, i really wanted at least 50 more... And then i think about the kids and how i have been lucky to have both of my parents still to this day and how i couldnt imagine my…

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Unhappy new year

Posted on January 2, 2020 at 7:27pm 4 Comments

Reluctantly being plunged into a new year without the one and only person who knew me loved unconditionally it feels bitter sweet.  No celebrating this year went to bed early hoping to dream of my love.  I didnt wanna think about not having him not here to be with us .  wishing we had never went to the lake that horrible terrible worse day of our lives.  Not just the worse fathers day but the beginning of a start to the first of many horrible days. My sons…

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Dear Santa all I want for Christmas is my Daddy

Posted on December 27, 2019 at 4:22pm 0 Comments

This christmas when I told my kids to write to santa I sorta knew what their one and only thing they truely wanted for christmas cause it was the only thing I wanted for christmas too.  My husband back for them to get to have their dad back and us get to live happily ever after. But sad to say I just like them knew that he was gone and nothing not even santa could bring him back no matter how much we all wished and hoped and…

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At 12:04pm on December 10, 2019, Dianne in Nevada said…

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