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Roxana
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  • United Kingdom
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Unbearable pain

Started this discussion. Last reply by Roxana Apr 3. 2 Replies

Hi everyone, i lost my husband on 28 th of january 2019. He was 52 and i am 35. He died in his sleep f a heart attack. We were not aware he is ill, it was totally unxpected, I found him dead in the…Continue

 

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Roxana commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear SFbay, i feel exactly the same,  im 35 and the idea of living another 50 years without him and in this daily hell, makes me sick to my husband. Saying that, noone said we will live another 50 years, so there is hope( as macabre as that…"
Friday
Telynn left a comment for Roxana
"Thank you and I am sorry for your loss.  I just am trying to take one day at a time.  I feel like everything is so unreal."
May 5
Roxana commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Hi, Telynn and welcome. This is the most horrendous forum to have to subscribe to, but it will be of  great comfort to you while you are navigating the times  following this tragedy. Hugs. Im so sorry you had to join this family."
May 4
Roxana replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion 3 MONTHS AFTER in the group Widowed in 2019
"Dear Ozzy, Of course it is normal to be broken to a million pieces, you lost your hest friend, your supporter, your companion through thick and thin, your helper, your lover. Marriage is a sacred institution in which the two become one. We are…"
Apr 8
Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion Unbearable pain
"dear Tess, My experience with people has been that most get “ scared” of the situation and back off. His family completely blanks me out since he died  too, God knows why. To be honest, I am not sure if support would make a great…"
Apr 3
Tess replied to Roxana's discussion Unbearable pain
"Roxana, I am so sorry for your sudden loss. It is numbing, especially when it death comes with no warning. So hard too is when you are in physical as well as emotional pain. Please know that you are not alone. The initial feelings of shock and pain…"
Apr 3
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Unbearable pain

Hi everyone, i lost my husband on 28 th of january 2019. He was 52 and i am 35. He died in his sleep f a heart attack. We were not aware he is ill, it was totally unxpected, I found him dead in the morning.Im mostly numb and shocked, however once a day appoximtely i have moments when it sinks in what happened and the pain and horror and panick feel unbearable. Its like someone cuts your body in a milion pieces or pulls your skin off. To top it up i suffer with ME and fibromyalgia and Im…See More
Apr 2
Roxana replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Debilitating morning grief
"We need to support each other, the best we can.  Thank you for your kind words, but I will have to go through my own personal hell, no way around it, and hang on the idea that we will see each other again. So i am focusing on continuing to…"
Mar 18
Roxana replied to LandL (Linda)'s discussion Debilitating morning grief
"Hi, honey. I am 35 and my husbsnd died of a heart attack in January. The longing and pain are unbearable at times,and I am a very fearful and anxious person by nature,  but the idea that keeps me going is that one day I will die too and I will…"
Mar 18
eliana left a comment for Roxana
"Welcome to Widville, Roxana. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit…"
Mar 8

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At 5:25am on May 5, 2019, Telynn said…

Thank you and I am sorry for your loss.  I just am trying to take one day at a time.  I feel like everything is so unreal.

At 1:12am on March 8, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Roxana. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville. Take care of yourself.

 
 
 

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