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Roxana
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So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.

Started this discussion. Last reply by Roxana Jul 5. 8 Replies

Hi everyone, I hope you are all well.Today is our 6th wedding anniversary and I am soo sad. Im sad all the time,but i find today to be the hardest day. My husband died unexpectedely in the night, his…Continue

Unbearable pain

Started this discussion. Last reply by Roxana Apr 3. 2 Replies

Hi everyone, i lost my husband on 28 th of january 2019. He was 52 and i am 35. He died in his sleep f a heart attack. We were not aware he is ill, it was totally unxpected, I found him dead in the…Continue

 

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Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"Dear J, thank you for the advice, im glad you are feeling better. Hopefully I will reach that point too. You are right, this forum is so helpful, many kind people in here. take care and thank you again"
Jul 5
J in Florida replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"We just had what would have been our 8th wedding anniversary, but on one awful night SJ was taken from us. It's been over 1 year, which still feels like yesterday, but I had a good day looking at our pictures and remembering the awesome times…"
Jul 2
Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"   Dear Timelord, I am still in the phase where I dont want things to get better, because I equate that with letting go of Mark and our marriage,forgetting about him,"moving on", being disloyal. I dont want Mark to become just…"
Jul 1
Timelord replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"hi - as John said, things do...improve with time.  That is true!  I never through it would be - but it does. And yes, Mark will love you always.  That will never ever ever change. And I think you will find many things to keep you…"
Jul 1
Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"Dear Timelord, Thank you so much for the kind words, you really made my day when you said Mark loves me and he always will. Maybe he is celebrating our anniversary also wherever he is. He always used to say::you give me 30 years of marriage then…"
Jul 1
Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"Dear John, Thank you for taking from your time to write these encouraging words,they mean the world to me. Its so comforting to hear from people that went through this already and that can be encouraging without diminishing in any way the…"
Jul 1
chef (John) replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"Roxanna, First of all, ((Hugs)). Second: You're at the five-month mark. I know how much that hurts...but please keep on doing what it takes on a day-by-day (and from where you are, maybe second-by-second would be more accurate) basis. This is…"
Jul 1
Timelord replied to Roxana's discussion So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.
"Hello Roxana - first my heart goes out to you.  I wish I could tell you there is a "short cut" or whatnot out of...this, but there isn't.  I remember (for me it's been 7 years) that the first few weeks then months were…"
Jul 1
Roxana posted a discussion

So sad, longing to be with my husband, and wedding anniversary.

Hi everyone, I hope you are all well.Today is our 6th wedding anniversary and I am soo sad. Im sad all the time,but i find today to be the hardest day. My husband died unexpectedely in the night, his heart stopped. This was 5 months ago.It might sound sinister, but I really want God to take me so I can be next to my husband. I cannot imagine life without him, specifically since I am only 35.  I would much rather be in the other side with him than here. The pain is unbearable. How do people…See More
Jul 1
Roxana commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear SFbay, i feel exactly the same,  im 35 and the idea of living another 50 years without him and in this daily hell, makes me sick to my husband. Saying that, noone said we will live another 50 years, so there is hope( as macabre as that…"
May 16
Telynn left a comment for Roxana
"Thank you and I am sorry for your loss.  I just am trying to take one day at a time.  I feel like everything is so unreal."
May 5
Roxana commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Hi, Telynn and welcome. This is the most horrendous forum to have to subscribe to, but it will be of  great comfort to you while you are navigating the times  following this tragedy. Hugs. Im so sorry you had to join this family."
May 4
Roxana replied to Ozzy turtle's discussion 3 MONTHS AFTER in the group Widowed in 2019
"Dear Ozzy, Of course it is normal to be broken to a million pieces, you lost your hest friend, your supporter, your companion through thick and thin, your helper, your lover. Marriage is a sacred institution in which the two become one. We are…"
Apr 8
Roxana replied to Roxana's discussion Unbearable pain
"dear Tess, My experience with people has been that most get “ scared” of the situation and back off. His family completely blanks me out since he died  too, God knows why. To be honest, I am not sure if support would make a great…"
Apr 3
Tess replied to Roxana's discussion Unbearable pain
"Roxana, I am so sorry for your sudden loss. It is numbing, especially when it death comes with no warning. So hard too is when you are in physical as well as emotional pain. Please know that you are not alone. The initial feelings of shock and pain…"
Apr 3
Roxana posted a discussion

Unbearable pain

Hi everyone, i lost my husband on 28 th of january 2019. He was 52 and i am 35. He died in his sleep f a heart attack. We were not aware he is ill, it was totally unxpected, I found him dead in the morning.Im mostly numb and shocked, however once a day appoximtely i have moments when it sinks in what happened and the pain and horror and panick feel unbearable. Its like someone cuts your body in a milion pieces or pulls your skin off. To top it up i suffer with ME and fibromyalgia and Im…See More
Apr 2

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At 5:25am on May 5, 2019, Telynn said…

Thank you and I am sorry for your loss.  I just am trying to take one day at a time.  I feel like everything is so unreal.

At 1:12am on March 8, 2019, eliana said…

Welcome to Widville, Roxana. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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