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Sander
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  • Cedarburg, WI
  • United States
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Sander replied to outwest's discussion Dealing with the first milestone in the group Born in the 50s
"Outwest.....sorry for your loss....the first milestone can be hard...my husband passed last November 16th and our wedding anniversary is November 20th....I really struggled with that day....I tried to remember all the good times we had and watched…"
Jun 17
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Linda...about 3 months after my husband passed and had a similar experience....in the middle of the night I woke up startled because if felt like the bed was shaking like someone was trying to wake me up...we don't have earthquakes in…"
Jun 16
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Lisa...sorry for your loss.... It's been 5 months since Dennis passed away....his only request was to be cremated, guess the rest is up to me...we don't have any plots so the only placed I could think of that he would like to be is in the…"
Apr 25
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Riskybiz....So sorry for your loss.....I wish I had answers for you...it's 5 months today that Dennis passed away...the waves of grief can be overwhelming ...I found it very hard when I had to take my husbands name off of everything...I put…"
Apr 16
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"1. If I had a million dollars, I would ___Share it with my family_2. If I had to play a musical instrument, I would play the ___Piano...should have never quit_3. Besides English, I'd love to learn ___German4. The first thing I cooked that…"
Apr 15
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Have to agree with you LP...another week.......it's 5 months this week that I lost Dennis.....the social distancing is taking its toll along with trying to adjust to living alone.....my daughter sent me pictures of my grandson's with their…"
Apr 12
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Hello All....if it isn't hard enough to cope with the loss of of my soulmate Dennis and deal with being alone and quaratined because of the virus...last Thursday evening I had to drive myself to the ER because my heart was in Afib.....after…"
Apr 4
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Good morning all.....I was catching up on reading my local paper cuz I was in Florida for a month and there was an article written by my late husbands surgeon about why early detection is so important for Colorectal Cancer....Ugh....I begged my…"
Apr 2
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"1. WYR lose the ability to read or lose your ability to speak? Read....not being able to speak/sing would be hard to cope with 2. WYR have a golden voice or a silver tongue? Golden(singing)Voice.....have a very good start of one from God & my…"
Apr 2
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"LP, you are a true angel to be able to do that.....I know I wouldn't be able to....my cousin volunteers at the Hospice where my husband passed.....he was there the night before and it was a comfort to me...after my son was killed I had often…"
Apr 1
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Thx KJPE....sometimes I feel like  I can't do this, but then I think about my wonderful daughter and my precious grandsons...now I also have the Widowed Village which is very comforting...Thx to all of you and sending virtual hugs!"
Mar 29
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Book Girl...sorry for your loss...this is a great site for sharing your feelings...we do know your pain....this isolation is so much harder when your already alone because of the loss of your husband....in Wisconsin were suppose to stay home till…"
Mar 29
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"1. what was your 1st pet and his/her name? Boxer Dog...Zorro2. Did you have a favorite stuffed animal as a kid? Beanie Bear3. What was your favorite subject in high school? Music4. Did you earn an award or get a trophy for an accomplishment in…"
Mar 26
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Hi Holistic Widow...Welcome....I just joined also...sorry for your loss..I also lost my soulmate on 11/16/19 to colon cancer. The days are hard....I struggle with the nights ...not being able to sleep....sorry that you have lost most of your…"
Mar 26
knitter left a comment for Sander
"Hi, I'm so sorry for your losses, I can't imagine.  I didn't know how to reply to your comment on my wall, so here it it.  Thank you for being here and giving us comforting words and understanding."
Mar 26
Sander commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2019
"Some people just don't realize that it would be better to not say anything and just give you a hug.....I have some friends who say "I wish there was something I could do" I tell them your doing it by being concerned & listening to…"
Mar 23

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At 4:08pm on March 26, 2020, knitter said…

Hi, I'm so sorry for your losses, I can't imagine.  I didn't know how to reply to your comment on my wall, so here it it.  Thank you for being here and giving us comforting words and understanding.

At 12:02pm on March 20, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Sander. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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