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Scotty
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Started this discussion. Last reply by chef (John) yesterday. 21 Replies

Hi everyoneI lost my wife in early March to metastatic breast cancer which spread to her brain. Fortunately I was with her up until she died but we had to limit numbers to her funeral due to Covid19.…Continue

 

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Debb replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"I’m so sorry to hear that I lost my husband last July. This is a hard road one that I never thought that would be on. Hang in there it gets better."
Jun 28
Alma replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"I am glad you will be able to see your family. It helps."
Jun 28
Scotty replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Hi Julia I'm sorry to hear that you lost your wife such a short time ago and I'm sure your emotions are still very raw. Covid19 certainly added to our grief as not only did we lose a wife and mother but we were then forced to isolate…"
Jun 27
Scotty replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Hi Soulmate Thanks for your kind words of support, I can relate to the 100mph scenario. I have two daughters, my eldest moved to London with her husband a few years ago and my youngest was supposed to move to Chicago with her husband back in January…"
Jun 27
Scotty replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Hi Maralina, Thanks for your kind words and I am sorry that you lost your husband an even shorter time ago than I lost my wife. I feel almost like it should be me offering you support but to be honest I wouldn't know where to start, all I can…"
Jun 27
Scotty replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Hi Alma Thanks for the welcome and I'm sorry to hear that you lost your husband too. I'm now on day 100 since the funeral and I guess I'm slowly beginning to accept my situation. Lockdown has been eased enough over here now so that I…"
Jun 27
JuliaB replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Scotty, I lost my wife about 3 weeks ago, also cancer. COVID 19 put a damper on everything, for sure. This is a tough time in general but even tougher making it through day by day as a new widow/widower!! Hang in there!! One day at a time!! Where…"
Jun 27
soulmate replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"I am sorry you are having to experience suffering. While I won't ever say "I know how you feel" I will convey I am familiar with the silence. I equate the death and caretaking of a spouse to driving 100 mph and suddenly to zero-life…"
Jun 26
Scotty replied to Hayley_A's discussion Where is everyone from?
"I'm in South West England"
Jun 20
Maralina replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Sorry for your loss.  I lost my husband about 2 months ago to a  brain aneurysm and understand the difficulties during Covid.  I also moved within a month of his passing to be closer to one  of  my daughters.  Please…"
Jun 20
Alma replied to Scotty's discussion New to the "Club"
"Welcome to the forum. I am so very sorry for your loss. I lost my husband to suicide nearly 11 months ago. Grieving has been the hardest thing I have ever done. The Covid outbreak has also added to the loneliness. Try to take solace in knowing you…"
Jun 20
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Hi everyoneI lost my wife in early March to metastatic breast cancer which spread to her brain. Fortunately I was with her up until she died but we had to limit numbers to her funeral due to Covid19. I have two daughters who I haven't seen since the funeral due to our lockdown restrictions.I am in the process of selling our home and moving somewhere new and trying to restart my life on my own.The silence everday is horrible.See More
Jun 19
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for Scotty
"Welcome to Widville, Scotty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here. Join the Groups that fit you to find others that share your experience. Check out the Forum Discussions for…"
Jun 19

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At 2:47pm on June 19, 2020, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, Scotty. I'm so sorry for your loss, but pleased you found us. You’ll find caring support and friendship here.

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