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Seashell
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  • Saint George, UT
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Seashell replied to Tess's discussion Moving forward and making decisions in the group Born in the 50s
"I know how you feel. Making decisions on my own after being married for 35 years was and is still very difficult. I stayed in my house because my neighbor (who was also a widow) wanted me close to her but I found that as time went on she began a new…"
Tuesday
Seashell replied to CarolinaHeart's discussion TRAVELING ALONE? in the group Born in the 50s
"Number 1 - make sure you have hotel reservations set-up either ahead of time or earlier in the day. Determine the number of miles or hours that you are willing to drive alone that day. Take into account that you may be stopping more often for breaks…"
Feb 6
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"I understand Frank. The last thing I did for my husband was place his ashes into the opening. For me, it was my final step in taking care of my husband... "
Feb 5
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"At the encouragement of my widow's group I went to a medium 2 1/2 years after my husband died. Not only did my husband come through - but my father did also. Recently my daughter asked me if I had gone to the medium again and I told her that I…"
Feb 1
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"KMA2106 I understand what you are going through. It does seem unfair that someone we had looked up to for their strength for so long is gone. Allow yourself the time to grieve. I attended a class on Emotional Healing where the man demonstrated what…"
Feb 1
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"The end of 2017 from September on marked my husband's and my birthdays, our anniversary, and holidays. It seemed this year I felt things more intensely and by December I was very depressed and crying almost as I had when Jerry first passed…"
Jan 31
Seashell replied to Tess's discussion Self Discovery in the group Born in the 50s
"Yes, I understand what you mean. My husband and I had been married for nearly 35 years and we were each others Best Friends and did everything together. It has been five years but I am slowly getting to know myself (and liking myself for who I am).…"
Jan 22
Seashell replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"I am finding that as time goes on I do prefer the company of my female friends. I can be myself and if I am not my best - well, they'll accept me that way. I don't want to be looking over my shoulder and wondering if he is looking for the…"
Jan 16
Seashell replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"Yes, Belynne. I too feel the same way. It will be five years this coming April since my husband passed away. I am 61 and do not have the body I did at 22. I have come to accept that a lifetime of experiences are now etched onto my body and I have…"
Jan 16
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Wow! NoLongerInBergen. You really hit a core with me. It has been 4 plus years since Jerry died and this year has been a challenge for me. Both of my daughters have gone through divorces from very narcissistic men. I sold my home and moved 40 miles…"
Jan 8
Seashell commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Riverside...I understand your pain. I had come home from work to find that my husband had passed away from a heart attack. Our youngest grandson was just 4 days old. We had been up to see him and had just returned home the evening before. Know that…"
Jan 2
Seashell replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"May your grandson always have that special grin that only his grandfather can bring to him. Our loved ones that have passed are never really very far from us. Bless you this holiday season with joy and happiness as seen through the eyes of a young…"
Dec 1, 2017
Seashell replied to only1sue's discussion What are the fundamentals of dating in your 60s and 70s?
"I was 14 when I met my husband. 22 when we married. I can count on one hand how many men I dated between that time. My husband was one who loved me unconditionally. Always built me up. Never looked at another woman. And, we were friends. I…"
Nov 30, 2017
Seashell replied to Former Yooper's discussion When Does It Stop
"The sadness may always be there. Some years it would come prior to the anniversary date and end with a crescendo on that day. This year the days before it seemed relatively mild with the emotions flooding into me on the day of or after. September,…"
Nov 30, 2017
Seashell replied to kenslove 's discussion So many different identities....
"Dear Ken's girl - I know what you mean. For 35 years I was "Jerry's wife" - and a mother and grandmother. Then I became a "widow" and a "single" woman but I had never lived as a single woman. It's been 4…"
Nov 30, 2017
Seashell replied to InsideLove's discussion Is morning or night worst for you? How do you get through it?
"It has been four and a half years since Jerry passed. Mornings are still the hardest time for me. There are times I still cry. There are times I pray to make it through another day. There are times I wish we were together again. The pain does lessen…"
Nov 30, 2017

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At 2:22pm on September 28, 2015, wannabmartha said…

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