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Racingfan60 commented on ShirleyB's blog post Surreal
"Hello: I too am new to this site. I am 60 years old and I lost my husband suddenly on July 27, 2016 we have 2 boys ages 24 and 19 my husband had just undergone 8 weeks of radiation therapy for intermediate stage prostate cancer the doctors told us…"
Jun 16
ShirleyB commented on kellygreenstrat (Colin)'s blog post I've Answered My Own Question
"@Athena53.  No, I don't think I actually said I was "lucky" to lose my husband with advanced notice.    I think what I said was I was lucky to have the time even with the terminal illness to make memories with him and…"
Jun 11
ShirleyB commented on kellygreenstrat (Colin)'s blog post I've Answered My Own Question
"My Ah-Ha post. I too was struck by the same question....I remember someone telling me- back towards the beginning of our cancer journey that I was lucky to have this time with John even with a terminal diagnosis. I mean, she told me that at least I…"
Jun 9
Molly commented on ShirleyB's blog post Surreal
"Hello. I am new to this also. I am sorry for your loss also. May we all find some peace in this journey we are on."
Jun 9
Callie2 commented on ShirleyB's blog post Surreal
"Shirley, My condolences on your very recent loss. You begin now a long and difficult journey, one that is quite painful. It takes time to "sink in" as so many thoughts cross our minds. I remember it was the first thing on my mind when I…"
Jun 8
Averysmom commented on ShirleyB's blog post Surreal
"Hello Shirley, I am so very sorry for your loss. I recognize all too well the emotions you describe. You are not alone. I lost the love of my life March 2nd, also to cancer. Our 24th anniversary is this coming Sunday. Even after 3 months I still…"
Jun 8
Larryh0823 left a comment for ShirleyB
"ShirleyB, At 2 weeks in I know that things are extremely difficult for you.  We are here to help you.  At this point I am just over 4 months in and there is a long way left of this journey.  I am here to help in any way…"
Jun 7
My New Life left a comment for ShirleyB
"Hi, I lost Mark January 21, 2017.  I'm very sorry for your loss."
Jun 7
kellygreenstrat (Colin) commented on ShirleyB's blog post Surreal
"Shirley, I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'm glad you found this site so early on, I did also and it has been such a blessing.  There are going to be so many ups and downs in the coming months and years,  this is a healthy…"
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"ShirleyB, Welcome to this group.  I know at the point where you are right now that you are really"
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Surreal

Hello. I am new to this site.  I lost the love of my life to cancer two weeks ago.  We were married for 21 years and have two children ages 18 and 15. Beyond the feeling of grief I have never felt before in my entire life- that comes in incredible waves out of nowhere at any time of the day...I find myself having trouble grasping that this is my new world. Who EVER thinks they are going to come part of a sight like this. I find it surreal at times. To think about the fact that John will no…See More
Jun 7
Dianne in Nevada left a comment for ShirleyB
"Welcome to Widville, ShirleyB. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here. Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here! …"
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Surreal

Posted on June 7, 2017 at 1:09pm 5 Comments

Hello. I am new to this site.  I lost the love of my life to cancer two weeks ago.  We were married for 21 years and have two children ages 18 and 15. Beyond the feeling of grief I have never felt before in my entire life- that comes in incredible waves out of nowhere at any time of the day...I find myself having trouble grasping that this is my new world. Who EVER thinks they are going to come part of a sight like this. I find it surreal at times. To think about the fact that John will no…

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At 4:49pm on June 7, 2017, Larryh0823 said…

ShirleyB,

At 2 weeks in I know that things are extremely difficult for you.  We are here to help you.  At this point I am just over 4 months in and there is a long way left of this journey.  I am here to help in any way possible.

Larry

At 4:31pm on June 7, 2017, My New Life said…

Hi, I lost Mark January 21, 2017.  I'm very sorry for your loss.

At 2:18pm on June 7, 2017, Larryh0823 said…

ShirleyB,

Welcome to this group.  I know at the point where you are right now that you are really

At 6:57am on June 6, 2017, Dianne in Nevada said…

Welcome to Widville, ShirleyB. I'm so very sorry for your loss, but pleased that you found us. You'll find caring support and friendship here.

Here's the best place to start: Need help using the site? Ask here!  You can join the Groups that fit you to connect to others with similar experiences. Share your story. Take a look at our Forum discussions where you'll find meaningful conversations taking place.

Be sure to check out the HOME page for the latest news.  I look forward to getting to know you here in Widville.

 
 
 

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