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Hi. I am new to this site. I was widowed suddenly in 213. My wonderful husband aged 54 died of a cardiac arrest. The pain of his loss and trauma from witnessing it and feeling so helpless to save him…

Posted on November 8, 2015 at 1:33am 4 Comments

Hi. I am new to this site. I was widowed suddenly in 213. My wonderful husband aged 54 died of a cardiac arrest. The pain of his loss and trauma from witnessing it and feeling so helpless to save him will be with me forever. How ones life can change so abruptly and so totally! We were married 36 years and he was a fun kind adventourous man who still had much to give. It has been a struggle coming to terms with. I have kept busy but find it is still hard carrying on alone. At 60 I don't want to… Continue

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At 4:33am on April 18, 2016, Sarah said…
Dear Silver
Mine passed on feb 9 of this year. I carry so much guilt and I was not able to revive him and then I was not able to save him and that I did not notice the signs a few minutes before. I understand your loss and I feel your pain and I hope that one day that thiugh we may not ever be the same that we will be able to enjoy some moments of life in the beauty around us. I am still dwelling in the sadness, in the sorrow and I pray every day for peace and for healing. But sadness something I carry with me every moment and missing him will never go away. Take care of yourself and remember you would probably want you to do that. Sarah
At 4:14am on October 30, 2015, LifesAJourney said…

Welcome to Widville, Silver fern. I am truly sorry for your loss, and hope you find caring support and friendship here.

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