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Singledadof9
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About dating....

Started this discussion. Last reply by Singledadof9 Jul 15, 2011. 16 Replies

This is something I'm not sure of and confused about. So about 3 years after my wife passed I started hanging around someone I met through work. We didn't work together but worked for the same…Continue

Anniversaries

Started Jun 24, 2011 0 Replies

6/24/11This week would have been mine and Joanne's 21st wedding anniversary. Its one of those times that could be good or bad depending on how it goes. Thankfully we are also celebrating my son…Continue

 

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"Paul, you are so right. We had people praying all over the world for my wife. She was 39, a mother of 9! This made/makes no sense! You hit the nail on the head when you said "you just need to look harder to understand what that miracle…"
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Singledadof9 commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"Mariposa, isn't it true about the word? I feel like it speaks to me differently every time. And that's not all that helped me. The people in our lives both in Atlanta and in New Jersey and New York just came to our aid. It was…"
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Singledadof9 commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"Hi Monica! Thank you for your comments. I'm glad these words helped you in some way. :)"
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Singledadof9 commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"Hi Cathy! You are so right! I'm so glad that you were encouraged by my words. It means a lot. Thank you!"
Jun 12
Paul R commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"I had a very difficult time with the sermon around this text.  The basic message of the sermon was that we all hope for that same type of miracle, our loved one will be saved and we can continue living with them.  But today that usually…"
Jun 10
Mariposa commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"Thanks for the encouragement and for sharing the words of Jesus, because it is my faith that helped me to get through his battle with cancer, and then the tragedy of his death. Yes, the WORD is truly a source of comfort."
Jun 10
Monica commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"I am able to go through this tough journey because of my faith in Jesus and prayers, I know my husband is in a better place, thanks for your blog it helped feel better."
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Jpswife commented on Singledadof9's blog post Arise!
"Your words are an encoUragement to me! I'm SO glad I'm a Chrisyian--John was also--& I'll see him again one day'! Thanks. Cathy"
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SheriAnne commented on Singledadof9's blog post Be There With Him
"This is a really beautiful way to get our hearts ready to celebrate Easter and thank you for sharing. I am going to take your challenge and try to "insert" myself in these final days of Jesus' life on earth."
Mar 28
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Forgiven

Posted on June 17, 2013 at 11:28pm 0 Comments

Happy Father's Day everyone! I hope you were able to enjoy the day with your families.

The Mass readings for Father's Day were perfect. In the first reading, David gets a message from God through the prophet Nathan for taking Bathsheba as his own and then killing her husband Uriah the Hittite. What does he get? Forgiven. In Luke's gospel, Jesus is having dinner with a Pharisee when a sinful woman comes in, interrupts the party, anoints Jesus, kisses his feet, cries and dry's his feet…

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Arise!

Posted on June 9, 2013 at 11:10pm 8 Comments

Today in Mass, the gospel reading was Luke 7:11-17. It's the story of the widow in Nain whose son had died. Jesus was moved with pity and told her, "Do not weep." Then he stepped forward, touched the coffin and said, "Young man, I tell you, arise!" And so he did. Then Jesus gave him to his mother. The gospel says that "fear seized them all."

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Be There With Him

Posted on March 27, 2013 at 3:46pm 2 Comments

Happy Holy Week!

 

As I head off to Chicago for my son's graduation from boot camp, I had to write a quick note about this wonderful spiritual week. In a recent session I had with my spiritual director I talked about being away for Holy Week. I didn't realize how important it was for me to…

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Faith Boot Camp

Posted on February 8, 2013 at 5:52pm 5 Comments

On Monday we sent 18 year old Matthew off to Navy Boot Camp in Great Lakes, IL. We had a large gathering on Saturday of family and friends to send him off. It was a great celebration for a great kid.

 

I wasn't prepared for the emotions that would rise up in me as a result.  After having dinner with him Monday night and taking him back to the hotel where all the recruits were staying, he was very somber. I knew he was tired but somber I wasn't expecting. We texted that night a…

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At 3:02pm on August 9, 2012, bj628(Bonnie) said…

Thank you for friending me.  (((((hugs))))) Bonnie

At 2:17pm on August 9, 2012, kimkirt (KK) said…

Hi, thank you for friending me. :-)

At 2:23pm on August 4, 2012, Singledadof9 said…
"I know i can't be with you anymore. But that's ok, because I am in you." Joanne took her final journey home 7 years ago today. And I know she can't be with us anymore, but she is definitely within us. I love you babe, always and forever.
At 12:50pm on July 12, 2012, Israel Girl (Chris) said…

Hey, thanks!  It's such a boost when someone "friends" me!  Have an awesome day.

At 7:22am on February 29, 2012, heatherL said…

thanks for sending the video, that was beautiful, and you are so brave

At 8:57pm on November 11, 2011, Robinak said…

No Problem! Thanks for accepting. Brave Man!  Thanks for the laughs in chat too!

At 5:57pm on August 15, 2011, Kaye (Nextstep11) said…
That sounds like a great idea!
At 2:17pm on June 27, 2011, Dianne in Nevada said…

Hope your special day is filled with love and laughter.

At 7:30pm on June 12, 2011, james36 said…
9 children!  That is great.  I don't know how you do it!  I have two small children and I have a really hard time -- I can't imagine 9!  My hat is off to you.  I also lost my wife to cancer, so I know what that is like.  Thanks for connecting.  You have my understanding, and I send love and encouragement your way today.
At 8:51am on June 12, 2011, dadoffour (Floyd) said…

Rich, thanks for the freind request, I am widowed with four daughters, I can only imagine the challenges that you face by doing it all alone. Feel free to should out if you need to chat a bit. Welcome to WV, this is a great placet to gain understanding and compassion on our journey.

Regards,

Floyd

 
 
 

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