"Hello, snagglefoot... I kept your post (which came by email) up on my desktop for days because I wanted to respond, so deeply did I feel for you. But this past week was a non stop, crushing week and I never got to it. I did notice that many did…"
"Hello, first I am sorry for you loss. I don’t have any magic answers but this is some of what I have learned since my husband, Mark, died June 2, 2018. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in Jan, 2018, made it through chemo, and had the…"
"Know that you did all that you could do. No you did not know what was about to happen. You will never know if you could have given her medsor done something else she would be still here. We all have those feelings and we must try to put them aside…"
"Thank you, Thank you, for taking the time to share the road you have had to walk. I understand that there mite be better days ahead... I just cant see it yet. I appreciate you reaching out to the post..."
"Hi Snagglefoot -- I don't usually respond to people, but your pain is so palpable. When my love died Sept 11 of last year, I was shocked just like you. I have spent the last year second guessing myself about what I missed or didn't…"
i am so sorry for your loss. Losing your soulmate has to be the hardest thing ever to cope with. It is very hard to accept and we all say" what if"
Trauma from a sudden loss is very painful. I am…"
I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is simply overwhelming, especially when you probably thought you had caught Courtni's health issues in the nick of time. Nearly three years ago, while I was cooking him a…"
"Dear Snagglefoot, I’m so sorry for the loss. This is a terrible “club” to become a member of. The guilt at first is normal, and over time you should learn to let it go, as sometimes there is nothing you could have done. We…"
"Please don't feel bad. I know it is so hard. My husband had liver disease and I did not cook the healthiest food for him either, and I really felt so guilty about that after he died. Like, I didn't care enough or was too…"
I understand your pain and the millions of questions running through your head. My husbands heart stopped in the night, i went to the toilet and i walked past him laying dead on the sofa, used the toilet than ran past him again and went…"