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Snagglefoot
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  • Adel, IA
  • United States
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Nance63 replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hello, snagglefoot... I kept your post (which came by email) up on my desktop for days because I wanted to respond, so deeply did I feel for you. But this past week was a non stop, crushing week and I never got to it. I did notice that many did…"
23 hours ago
Kris63 replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hello, first I am sorry for you loss. I don’t have any magic answers but this is some of what I have learned since my husband, Mark, died June 2, 2018. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in Jan, 2018, made it through chemo, and had the…"
Tuesday
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"That is a lot to overcome! I hope that I can get there someday. Thank you for sharing that with me."
Aug 17
Blue Butterfly replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Know that you did all that you could do. No you did not know what was about to happen. You will never know if you could have given her medsor done something else she would be still here. We all have those feelings and we must try to put them aside…"
Aug 17
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you, Thank you, for taking the time to share the road you have had to walk. I understand that there mite be better days ahead... I just cant see it yet. I appreciate you reaching out to the post..."
Aug 15
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you for sharing your loss with me. Seeing that there is sunshine at the end of the tunnel makes me hopefully, even though I feel like Im drowing."
Aug 15
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hearing the replies from yourself and the other members help immensely... Thank you for your kind words!"
Aug 15
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you for sharing your loss with me... I appreciate it greatly"
Aug 15
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you for your kind words... It has been appreciated"
Aug 15
Doxielover replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Snagglefoot --  I don't usually respond to people, but your pain is so palpable. When my love died Sept 11 of last year, I was shocked just like you. I have spent the last year second guessing myself about what I missed or didn't…"
Aug 15
Silver fern replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Snagglefoot i am so sorry for your loss.  Losing your soulmate has to be the hardest thing ever  to cope with.  It is very hard to accept and we all say" what if" Trauma from a sudden loss is very painful.   I am…"
Aug 12
Erica_D_W replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Snagglefoot, I am so sorry for your loss. The pain is simply overwhelming, especially when you probably thought you had caught Courtni's health issues in the nick of time. Nearly three years ago, while I was cooking him a…"
Aug 12
jlsrdh replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Dear Snagglefoot,  I’m so sorry for the loss. This is a terrible “club” to become a member of. The guilt at first is normal, and over time you should learn to let it go, as sometimes there is nothing you could have done. We…"
Aug 12
littleblue replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Please don't feel bad.  I know it is so hard.  My husband had liver disease and I did not cook the healthiest food for him either, and I really felt so guilty about that after he died.  Like, I didn't care enough or was too…"
Aug 12
Snagglefoot replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Thank you so much for those words! Its nice to know that I'm not the only person feeling this way. In return, I am so sorry for your loss. "
Aug 12
Roxana replied to Snagglefoot's discussion Guilt, Shame and Pain in the group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi, friend I understand your pain and the millions of questions running through your head. My husbands heart stopped in the night, i went to the toilet and i walked past him laying dead on the sofa, used the toilet than ran past him again and went…"
Aug 12

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