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TFH2015 commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Nardly...I did several times in the beginning but the dreams have ceased over the years.  The first couple of dreams just seemed to be dreams about her but there was in fact one that I would class as a 'visitation' dream.  In…"
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Nardly commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2015
"Since Van died in May of 2015 I have not dreamed about her. Not sure if this is a subconscious way of coping or not. But in the last month or so I have. It feels so good to see her again. Last night I dreamed her and I were at a casino for vacation…"
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riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear friends, I just got back from the clinic. I had a knee replacement. Everything is going well, I am well surrounded. But the only person I really need is my dearest man who has now died for almost 19 months.I miss him as if he only died…"
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"Thank you for hearing me Tess.  I only started seeing a counselor last week because I expected the movie version of someone letting me lie on a couch while checking their watch all the time.  :)"
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Tess replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Olga, I am so very about the untimely death of your husband. You and your children are dealing with a lot, which I certainly don’t need to tell you. It sadly sounds like your support system has many holes in it. I am sorry for that. I…"
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Gazania replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"My name is Olga, I am 43.  English is my second language, my first is Afrikaans.  I am from South Africa.  My husband (43) passed away suddenly on May 16th, it will be 6 months this Saturday.   180 Days ago I was a housewife…"
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"So far the fires are a long way from here but are burning on many fronts. Tomorrow is going to be very hot and windy so always a risk of flare ups. This is only Spring so it seems like an unusually hot summer ahead of us. All we can do is continue…"
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"only1sue: I read in our news that New South Wales has numerous fires, not too unlike what is happening in California. Praying that you and your family are OK and safe."
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We Need to be Human, Together by Michele Neff Hernandez

Posted on July 28, 2016 at 10:51am 4 Comments

Michele posted these words on her Facebook page this morning and I felt they were important to share here. 

I've been thinking over the past several weeks about hate.

Each time a new attack on humanity is perpetrated, my heart just aches, and a feeling of helplessness looms. How do we combat this kind of hate? When you aren't sure from which corner or from what source violence will suddenly assault your mind, your heart, and for…

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Posted on December 13, 2015 at 10:36pm 3 Comments

  • Give yourself permission to feel how you feel about a particular holiday, or the holidays in general. Mixed feelings are normal too...you may find yourself okay one day and not okay the next. Try to go with the emotional flow.
  • Don't be afraid to consider doing something totally different for this year or one for one particular holiday. You are living with changes to your holidays that you didn't choose...why not make some you do choose?
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At 1:41pm on August 25, 2019, Morgana (Janet) said…

Welcome and so sorry for the reason you are here. I am glad you joined us  and sorry you are a member of the club no one wants to belong to. Please join us in chat when you can.

At 4:11pm on July 23, 2019, Daisyluv said…

Hello,

My husband died from an aortic dissection on December 16,2017. He had just turned 60 the month before. We were married for 36 years. I met him when I was 15 and married at 17. I always miss my husband and I don’t see that ever changing. I feel like I am doing better most days but I still have days that I just can’t believe he is gone. It helps to hear the story of others and to know that how I am feeling is not unusual and that I am not alone. I have three grown daughters,one still lives with me thankfully. It has been 19 months since my life and being changed forever.

At 6:30am on March 8, 2018, Beansy said…

I meant not concerning.

At 6:30am on March 8, 2018, Beansy said…

Ihave had one message from Cristacoix which was not concrrning beans

At 8:34am on July 9, 2017, Pathfinder said…
My husband passed away suddenly in May of 2016, so it's been just over a year. I didn't think I'd survive the first year. Now that I have, I'm trying to understand what I need to be happy. Right now, without having Greg to share life, dreams, and goals with, I feel isolated and alone. I don't want to let go of the connection that I have with Greg, but I also want to feel alive again. I'm trying to understand how to build a new path for my life without loosing my connection with him. I'm hoping that Camp Widow might be helpful with this. Has anyone found help with this from Camp Widow and/or though any books, therapy groups, etc.?
At 6:07am on January 30, 2017, spiritual dragonfly (Linda) said…
Thank you for the welcome.....today marks 108 days since I lost my husband of 14 years.....he was best friend..my rock..my everything..........he took a piece of me with him when he left...now I'm just trying to find my way to live again...
At 7:07pm on October 12, 2016, Cascade said…

Thanks for the welcome. I am brand new here. My husband of 25 years died very suddenly on December 30, 2015. We have 3 sons, who were at the time 24, 19 and 17. All of the widows I know in my community are 20+ years older than me.

At 7:39pm on January 13, 2016, Barry (widower2007) said…

Hello all, I was here before, but ran into comp problems. My wife passed on Valentines Day 2007.

At 9:35am on November 18, 2015, baranik said…

Thanks for the welcome comments. I am new to chat rooms. I feel like I should have it together but even after 15 years I miss my daughter who drowned while I was at work and my husband died 2 years later from `cancer leaving me with 3 boys to raise. My mother died 3 years latter from cancer. People think I am strong but that is a lie. I force myself to work as I do not have a money tree and to volunteer at different  places other wise I would not leave the house. The sadness is overwhelming at times and I wonder how other people deal with it

At 9:01am on July 1, 2015, Elaine said…
Hi Supa, I'm fairly new to widowed village.org and still trying to navigate the site. I've joined the born in the 40's or earlier. My husband died February 20, 2015..
It's good to have this place to connect with others going through the same thing. Thank you for befriending me.
Elaine
 
 
 

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