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Frank commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"Hi Shelley, Celebrations of life overall are wonderful things that help family and friends to just what is says.. Celebrate the life of...  For those of us that have just gone through that loss it can be both terrible and wrenching or, if you…"
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Barzan commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Riet, those of us who find comfort here in this group do so because we all had wonderful spouses and we miss them so much,  Please take time to breathe and know that he may be physically gone but he lives on in your heart, your children,…"
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shelley commented on Soaring Spirits's group Suddenly Widowed
"My husband's daughter and I had a falling out after John died.  She had endured many of her dad's relationships/girlfriends over the years, before John and I were together.  And it was important to her to be the most important…"
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Miss Em commented on Soaring Spirits's group Widowed in 2018
"Two days ago, some good friends got married. My kids and I went to the wedding. My husband would have been the best man, only he was killed 7 weeks earlier. I watched them say their vows, full of love and commitment and my heart broke for myself and…"
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Melissa commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Riet,  You described your husband so beautifully. He was so involved in life and love, right up until the end. I think having such an involved husband makes the loss even harder. Everything reminds you of him. Nothing feels right without…"
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booktime (Susan) commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Riet, if you can believe this: on this site you are not alone. We have all experienced loss in one way or another. Everyone's story is different and yet the same. We do not have our loved one anymore.  With only one month on this path you…"
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Slick commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Dear Riet..please, please try to take it slowly and your children...this is a devastating loss....I am a little more then 7 years and still feel it as if it was yesterday on occasion....there are no rights and wrongs her.....a lot of times…"
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riet commented on Soaring Spirits's group Born in the 50s
"Thank you Slick and Lioness,  It's now one month since my husband died and I still don't seem to accept it.  Today I visited our good friends for the first time alone and it just wasn't right.  He had to go with me…"
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Has anyone had your adult children blame you for their father/mother's death?

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Who's going to Camp Widow Toronto 2017? Let's get acquainted!

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OCTOBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days

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To our Widowed Friends in Texas - and to those who want to help

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Dear Widowed Community,Soaring Spirits would like to help any widowed people impacted by the disaster going on in Texas. Please post here if you are widowed and in need. We are working on a plan to…Continue

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We Need to be Human, Together by Michele Neff Hernandez

Posted on July 28, 2016 at 10:51am 4 Comments

Michele posted these words on her Facebook page this morning and I felt they were important to share here. 

I've been thinking over the past several weeks about hate.

Each time a new attack on humanity is perpetrated, my heart just aches, and a feeling of helplessness looms. How do we combat this kind of hate? When you aren't sure from which corner or from what source violence will suddenly assault your mind, your heart, and for…


Holiday Management Tips for Anyone Grieving the Loss of Someone They Love This Holiday Season

Posted on December 13, 2015 at 10:36pm 3 Comments

  • Give yourself permission to feel how you feel about a particular holiday, or the holidays in general. Mixed feelings are normal may find yourself okay one day and not okay the next. Try to go with the emotional flow.
  • Don't be afraid to consider doing something totally different for this year or one for one particular holiday. You are living with changes to your holidays that you didn't choose...why not make some you do choose?
  • Feel free to add tears to any…

Awkward: A conversation in year 6 of widowhood

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Pet Peeve: Boundaries

Posted on February 13, 2013 at 7:00am 31 Comments

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At 6:30am on March 8, 2018, Beansy said…

I meant not concerning.

At 6:30am on March 8, 2018, Beansy said…

Ihave had one message from Cristacoix which was not concrrning beans

At 8:34am on July 9, 2017, Pathfinder said…
My husband passed away suddenly in May of 2016, so it's been just over a year. I didn't think I'd survive the first year. Now that I have, I'm trying to understand what I need to be happy. Right now, without having Greg to share life, dreams, and goals with, I feel isolated and alone. I don't want to let go of the connection that I have with Greg, but I also want to feel alive again. I'm trying to understand how to build a new path for my life without loosing my connection with him. I'm hoping that Camp Widow might be helpful with this. Has anyone found help with this from Camp Widow and/or though any books, therapy groups, etc.?
At 6:07am on January 30, 2017, spiritual dragonfly (Linda) said…
Thank you for the marks 108 days since I lost my husband of 14 years.....he was best everything..........he took a piece of me with him when he I'm just trying to find my way to live again...
At 7:07pm on October 12, 2016, Cascade said…

Thanks for the welcome. I am brand new here. My husband of 25 years died very suddenly on December 30, 2015. We have 3 sons, who were at the time 24, 19 and 17. All of the widows I know in my community are 20+ years older than me.

At 7:39pm on January 13, 2016, Barry (widower2007) said…

Hello all, I was here before, but ran into comp problems. My wife passed on Valentines Day 2007.

At 9:35am on November 18, 2015, baranik said…

Thanks for the welcome comments. I am new to chat rooms. I feel like I should have it together but even after 15 years I miss my daughter who drowned while I was at work and my husband died 2 years later from `cancer leaving me with 3 boys to raise. My mother died 3 years latter from cancer. People think I am strong but that is a lie. I force myself to work as I do not have a money tree and to volunteer at different  places other wise I would not leave the house. The sadness is overwhelming at times and I wonder how other people deal with it

At 9:01am on July 1, 2015, Elaine said…
Hi Supa, I'm fairly new to widowed and still trying to navigate the site. I've joined the born in the 40's or earlier. My husband died February 20, 2015..
It's good to have this place to connect with others going through the same thing. Thank you for befriending me.
At 4:32pm on May 4, 2015, Sad One said…

Thank you, Soaring Spirits, for the warm welcome!

At 7:23am on February 28, 2015, said…
I just want you to know that you have made a difference for the good, for me and many others.

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