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Larryh0823 replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"InsideLove, I totally agree with you.  I have heard that verse quoted so many times and like you I can not find the peace and comfort that verse is supposed to give.  My wife died January 20th here at home after we had repeatedly been…"
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InsideLove replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion Introduce yourselves, please!
"Oh my goodness IBelieveInYou, I just was reading something very similar to what your brother said. I read that there was the relationship between my husband and I and he with me, and the third relationship was what was created between us. It came in…"
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"MidnightBear, it's sad to meet you here. Just visit to post or just read when you want to. What a sweet nick name Teddy is. I'm almost at the 3-month point and I hate it. Even though I see a few daily minutes of relief in the last couple…"
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"Midnightbear, its now 5 months since my Helen left my side.  Like your dear wife Helen also had cancer and almost 2 years to the day of diagnosis she went but the end also came so quick.  I am so so sorry for your loss and really…"
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MidnightBear replied to Soaring Spirits's discussion NOVEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days
"November is going to suck for me for a long time.  My wife's birthday was 3 days after she died.  My birthday is coming up in just about a week, we started dating on Thanksgiving over 20 years ago, and of course she died in…"
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"Hello MidnightBear, First of all, condolences. What you have experienced is terrible. I recall the fog in the first while after the love of my life had a  attack of some kind as she got ready for work. Our children did CPR. She was simply gone.…"
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"Midnight Bear, first I want to say how sorry I am that you have reason to be here. Having said that,I am really glad you are! One week is so terrifyingly new to this experience for you. I remember so well the same journey less than three years ago.…"
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"So I joined yesterday and considered if I really wanted to post or not.  I lost my wife just a week ago and still in horrible shock.  I walk around in a fog wishing that I would wake up to find it was some how a bad dream.  My wife…"
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NOVEMBER Anniversaries, Birthdays and Other Special Days

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Who's going to Camp Widow Toronto 2017? Let's get acquainted!

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To our Widowed Friends in Texas - and to those who want to help

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We Need to be Human, Together by Michele Neff Hernandez

Posted on July 28, 2016 at 10:51am 4 Comments

Michele posted these words on her Facebook page this morning and I felt they were important to share here. 

I've been thinking over the past several weeks about hate.

Each time a new attack on humanity is perpetrated, my heart just aches, and a feeling of helplessness looms. How do we combat this kind of hate? When you aren't sure from which corner or from what source violence will suddenly assault your mind, your heart, and for…

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Holiday Management Tips for Anyone Grieving the Loss of Someone They Love This Holiday Season

Posted on December 13, 2015 at 10:36pm 1 Comment

  • Give yourself permission to feel how you feel about a particular holiday, or the holidays in general. Mixed feelings are normal too...you may find yourself okay one day and not okay the next. Try to go with the emotional flow.
  • Don't be afraid to consider doing something totally different for this year or one for one particular holiday. You are living with changes to your holidays that you didn't choose...why not make some you do choose?
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Awkward: A conversation in year 6 of widowhood

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Pet Peeve: Boundaries

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I'm participating in the Widowed Blog Hop this month. Be sure to check out the other participants and leave them some comment love. For the largest list of blogs by Widowed folks, check my blog roll here. To add yours to the list,…

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At 8:34am on July 9, 2017, Pathfinder said…
My husband passed away suddenly in May of 2016, so it's been just over a year. I didn't think I'd survive the first year. Now that I have, I'm trying to understand what I need to be happy. Right now, without having Greg to share life, dreams, and goals with, I feel isolated and alone. I don't want to let go of the connection that I have with Greg, but I also want to feel alive again. I'm trying to understand how to build a new path for my life without loosing my connection with him. I'm hoping that Camp Widow might be helpful with this. Has anyone found help with this from Camp Widow and/or though any books, therapy groups, etc.?
At 6:07am on January 30, 2017, spiritual dragonfly (Linda) said…
Thank you for the welcome.....today marks 108 days since I lost my husband of 14 years.....he was best friend..my rock..my everything..........he took a piece of me with him when he left...now I'm just trying to find my way to live again...
At 7:07pm on October 12, 2016, Cascade said…

Thanks for the welcome. I am brand new here. My husband of 25 years died very suddenly on December 30, 2015. We have 3 sons, who were at the time 24, 19 and 17. All of the widows I know in my community are 20+ years older than me.

At 7:39pm on January 13, 2016, Barry (widower2007) said…

Hello all, I was here before, but ran into comp problems. My wife passed on Valentines Day 2007.

At 9:35am on November 18, 2015, baranik said…

Thanks for the welcome comments. I am new to chat rooms. I feel like I should have it together but even after 15 years I miss my daughter who drowned while I was at work and my husband died 2 years later from `cancer leaving me with 3 boys to raise. My mother died 3 years latter from cancer. People think I am strong but that is a lie. I force myself to work as I do not have a money tree and to volunteer at different  places other wise I would not leave the house. The sadness is overwhelming at times and I wonder how other people deal with it

At 9:01am on July 1, 2015, Elaine said…
Hi Supa, I'm fairly new to widowed village.org and still trying to navigate the site. I've joined the born in the 40's or earlier. My husband died February 20, 2015..
It's good to have this place to connect with others going through the same thing. Thank you for befriending me.
Elaine
At 4:32pm on May 4, 2015, Sad One said…

Thank you, Soaring Spirits, for the warm welcome!

At 7:23am on February 28, 2015, Just.me said…
I just want you to know that you have made a difference for the good, for me and many others.
At 1:51pm on January 25, 2015, Ama Ann said…
First visit to this site. Wish I didn't need all of you, but I do. Thank you for just being there
At 11:50pm on December 29, 2014, tjmac said…
Hi supa. I am new here. and has only actually been on your site twice. can't seem to find my way around
 
 
 

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